I work with a born again christian. He takes great pride (sin) in having a reputation in not trying to convert.
He actually is a really nice bloke. BUT. He gets stuck at one point when I put this accross. I say to him, as a Christian you are bound to certain rules, which of most of them are pretty much common sense but when I say "me as an athesit, I surely have a better moral compass than you, as I do not fear hell, I do good things because I am a good person, but he obviously does it out of fear.
I ask you, who is the better person. The man who realises we are worm food but does good deeds, or the man who thinks he wont get into heaven if he doesn't?