Pregnancy dilemma

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Sounds to me like your coming up with every excuse in the book for having an abortion. I've read through the thread and I dont think ive seen any mention of the 3rd party thats involved here aka the baby.

Go look up some abortion pics and catch yourself on. Its not an ideal situation for sure but be a man about it and work it out.
 
A2Z said:
Something doesnt sound right....

So you have been together 7 years, and not once did you feel that she could be the one, that you love her, and that you should take it more seriously and at least move in, but you still carried on sleeping with her?

So she was basically a bit on the side, that you didnt want to finish with so you could keep tapping that ass... and now you're moaning how a baby is going to affect you?

Totally your own fault.
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I sat down and read the whole thread properly and I sort of get that feeling. Living at home (sponging) having his bit on the side who he doesnt treat that seriously and probably spending his time down the pub with his mates bragging about his bit on the side.

Oooooh stereotypes are fun :D



Biohazard said:
tap that ass
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He did, thats the whole problem here ;)
 
At the end of the day, as a father i think you'll need to step up to the plate. Remember abortion is always a womans decision and now i think it would be best if you stand by whatever her decision. It takes two to tango.

A child can bring you closer together by the way but likewise it is another major reason why people split up, the first year is the most pressing and stressing part my wife and i can attest to that. But after a few months you'll be smitten about something thats yours and you've helped to make...

Wish you the best of luck regardless of your decision
 
Go flip a coin if you can't decide whether you want an abortion or not.
Might sound crude and a few pro lifers will have a paddy but sometimes decisions just need to be left up to chance if you can't see any right way to go.

Thought i'd throw that into the equation for you.
 
I smell troll. In case I'm wrong though:

  • You're 28, and still live with your parents.
  • You like your parents a lot, so you don't want to leave (lulz).
  • You basically used some poor lass, who's already had a father to her child bail on her, as an on-off sexual release while refraining from any kind of real involvement or commitment.
  • Now your frolics have led to the biologically inevitable, you want to flush the kid, bin the lass and run back to mummy.
Fail. You need to think very seriously about how your actions impact on others, including the child. Pathetic excuses like you wanted to dump her anyway, it's not fair for children to have different fathers etc are just that. Mate, you're 28 not 8. I'm younger than you and have been living with a woman and her three children for seven years. My mum and dad stopped looking after me when I was about 13. :p

Man. Up it.
 
man up its time to stop beeing a BOY , your parents must be proud they have raised a 28year old teenager.

my brother is older than you and still lives at home though + he has a kid with someone he doesnt live with and hes a selfish git.

he will pick his kid up once a week and stick her infront of a disney dvd while he goes back to his computer or whatever.

dad of the year just like you might be!
 
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Rainmaker said:
I smell troll. In case I'm wrong though:

  • You're 28, and still live with your parents.
  • You like your parents a lot, so you don't want to leave (lulz).
  • You basically used some poor lass, who's already had a father to her child bail on her, as an on-off sexual release while refraining from any kind of real involvement or commitment.
  • Now your frolics have led to the biologically inevitable, you want to flush the kid, bin the lass and run back to mummy.
Fail. You need to think very seriously about how your actions impact on others, including the child. Pathetic excuses like you wanted to dump her anyway, it's not fair for children to have different fathers etc are just that. Mate, you're 28 not 8. I'm younger than you and have been living with a woman and her three children for seven years. My mum and dad stopped looking after me when I was about 13. :p

Man. Up it.
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You need to bloody well grow up, 28 and still living with parents for a start.
Trailing this poor lass through a relationship you knew damn well was going nowhere.

Go and look up exactly what an abortion is and how it is done. It's bloody brutal on the woman and unborn child. You talk of a lifetime of misery on yourself... think of others for a change.

Even if you both dont want it, you can get it adopted, although when it's born i think you may feel different about just handing it over to someone, if not you, then the mother at least.

If you have an abortion i wish you a lifetime of misery.
 
oh my god. Grow a pair!
You are 28 and more concerned about the closeness to your parents than to a woman you have been with for 7 years.

Honestly, why would a 10 year old girl take you seriously when she hardly sees you?

Stop ruining both of their lives and leave them alone.
 
Just another thought: if she suffers from depression and takes antidepressants for it, she'll have to stop taking 'em if she wants to go through with the pregnancy.
 
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