You are absolutely right Xenon, but you are missing the point. People who get into these arguments are not arguing about the existence of god - they are arguing about who is right.
I'm not, as such. I'm arguing about who is not wrong, which is a slightly different viewpoint. It is possible that we could all be wrong, or that any one of us could be right. As you move away from the centre is where the problems start with both sides asserting that they are right and the others are wrong.
I've never accused a theist or atheist of being wrong about their beliefs (because I can't prove it either way), only pointed out if their logic is flawed or they are (accidentally or deliberately) misrepresenting their own position.
Man has argued for centuries - and even gone to war and committed terrible atrocities - just to prove he is right. Which is a ridiculous thing to do because "right" and "wrong" are abstract concepts open to interpretation and are entirely relative to an individuals life experiences and beliefs.
Indeed, and for a great many religious and non-religious reasons...
If you look back through this thread you will see my point exactly - loads of posts arguing about semantics and theoretical positions all of which are based on whichever side you are on being "right".
Quite futile really.
Philosophy frequently is, but that doesn't mean it isn't a valid topic of discussion.