Ok, the ex has now vacated the house. Now what?

[Droolinggimp]

We split up just before Christmas and she moved in the spare room. Saturday, she took 90% of her stuff to her new home and today she collected the rest including the dog and the two cats. Bit gutted about losing the dog but, hey ho, life goes on.

Had a pretty good day cleaning and sorting out the rooms. Putting things where I want to and seting up my surround system and PC. Good times

Since we split up I have seen a few people from work plus one from outside whom I have known for a very long time. Now, I have grown a soft spot for someone who left my work the other week. Nice woman and probably popping over later for a drink and chat. She came over last night after she finsihed work. We got on well and had fun.

Got money to sort out. Lodger to find, going to be hard to run the house on my own. All that aside, I am single, free, loving my life at the moment so what can you suggest for me to do? The 360 is broken so need to send it off, same with the projector. Really need to get that sorted out for the World cup before its too late.

Im just in a bit of a lull at the moment. What can I do? I work full time, no more dog to come home to. Is it time to just relax and enjoy myself for a while before even thinking about finding someone else? I do really like this woman though. Im not sure what to do, go for it or just hang back a little and go and have some fun?

 

[Viper²]

Fap.

 

[pioneer2000]

Right now, have a beer and relax!

After that, take it easy and remember there's no rush to jump back into any relationship - just have a good time!

or Fap like Viper says :-\

 

[Droolinggimp]

Having 1664 right now mate, with Doritos. I feel really relaxed. Got Iron Maiden blasting out too. Not a bad night so far..

 

[Greenlizard0]

Walk around naked. Do it.

 

[Droolinggimp]

obliterate said pasty

Not wanting to rush her. She is far too nice..

Walk around naked. Do it.

Errr... i was earlier...

 

[MowyTone]

Fun! you never know when you will have this chance again, take it while you can

 

[Droolinggimp]

I have been actually jumping around to Scooter while its been playing on my PC most of the afternoon whilst sorting stuff out.. All good..

 

[Greenlizard0]

Errr... i was earlier...

I don't mean from the bath to your towel, I mean around the house.

It's bizarrely liberating.

 

[sigma]

no more dog to come home to.

Bit harsh on the ex there.

I think you should do this:

hang back a little and go and have some fun

 

[Droolinggimp]

I was.....I even stood in the back door having a smoke with no clothes on belive it or not..

 

[qqg3]

How come she got the pets?

I'd insist on keeping the dog, the cats not so bothered

 

[capriboy1978]

I was.....I even stood in the back door having a smoke with no clothes on belive it or not..

In Chad? Man your brave...

GL with life - wish I had the balls to do it.

 

[LEK-89]

Having 1664 right now mate, with Doritos. I feel really relaxed. Got Iron Maiden blasting out too. Not a bad night so far..

Got some proper music blasting out there!

Stick on the Rock in Rio album

Liam

 

[Droolinggimp]

How come she got the pets?

I'd insist on keeping the dog, the cats not so bothered

Not fair on the dog. I work, well, im out of the house for 12 hours minimum everyday. Hes a working Lab so being left alone for that ammount of time could have a bad effect on him.

Its for the best him going with her.

 

[Droolinggimp]

In Chad? Man your brave...

GL with life - wish I had the balls to do it.

You know Chad?

 

[Deadude]

who doesnt know chad? Far too many people from the same palce in one thread i think

 

[Biohazard]

turn to christianity.

 

[xiphrex]

Its time for a sexy party!

 

[toon_mad]

overclocks should be renamed "councelling" or dear deidre or something, i swear every time i come on here someone is asking for guidance.

i would say to anyone and everyone "do what you want to do", its as simple as that, no need to post here!!