what do I do ??

knowlesy

knowlesy

knowlesy

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ok so I'm not complaining here or moping my life away, I just need genuine suggestions to what do I do.....

Ok so my gf ended it last week, but here's the kicker we were meant to have a 2 night luxury stay at a hotel in London this weekend. Which I got through a deal....

Now I'm in a few minds on what to do, I must admit I'm pretty gutted about it as I had a few high hopes for the relationship but, what do I do about this hotel... I cant get a refund due to the deal policy and sadly none of my mates can go, due to money, an operation and other responsibility's which I all know about and not too fussed...

So do I go by myself down there or just stay at my house and go out with my flat mates ?? I'm kind of partial to staying with my flat mates and having a good night out, but I there's a chance shell be out too....

Or do I go down to London and meet with a few people I know down there.... but chances are theyll already be busy as I haven't asked.


So what do I do...
 
You can't find ANYONE who will go with you?

Do you know anyone in London who you can go on a night out with?

Spare place in the bed and all that, might as well go on the pull ;)
 
Take your mates up to london, have a night out, and crash back at the hotel, try and sneak them all back to the room!!! You pay for the room and milk it so you get free drinks all night = win.
 
hah wouldnt even know where to go by myself on a night out, contemplated selling tbh.... but nope no one has offered like my parents etc and the bunch of lasses I know are of the vegas this week haha and the others already off with there boyfriends lol
 
controversial post this but it seems you have 3 options

1) Go yourself and have a fantastic time whatever happens.
2) Dont go and put it behind you
3) the controversial one if you ended on good terms ( i do realise she ended it) give it to her if you dont want to go but make it clear that it isnot an attempt to get her back (although it may well be).

If it were me no matter how difficult the decision if I didnt want to go I would consider option 3. (easy to say that I know as I am not in the situation but I would like to think I was able to consider this).
 
graemer said:
controversial post this but it seems you have 3 options

1) Go yourself and have a fantastic time whatever happens.
2) Dont go and put it behind you
3) the controversial one if you ended on good terms give it to her if you dont want to go but make it clear that it isnot an attempt to get her back (although it may well be).

If it were me no matter how difficult the decision if I didnt want to go I would consider option 3. (easy to say that I know as I am not in the situation but I would like to think I was able to consider this).
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yeah agreed, but I doubt shed go, I asked her about what were doing bout it and she said its ok if i take a mate, which was her first reply, so I dont think shes even fussed
 
I dont know any of single female, that I'm attracted to or like in anyway haha, and any randomer I'd expect would be weird to be frank...sadly! and my parents are at my grans all weekend as there going down before her birthday. Otherwise me and my dad would have gone down.
 
knowlesy said:
I dont know any of single female, that I'm attracted to or like in anyway haha, and any randomer I'd expect would be weird to be frank...sadly! and my parents are at my grans all weekend as there going down before her birthday. Otherwise me and my dad would have gone down.
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Doesn't have to be a female, just sneak a lot of your mates in and a lot of booze and have a fun night in the hotel. I would love to have a place to crash myself, all my mates still live with parents and we never have a place to go but an expensive pub :(. A night drinking & chilling with mates is great :).
 
Go on to one of those getlaid sites. Find a girl in your area or london who's willing to bone you. You get the hotel, the girl and the thrill of your life.
 
Vita said:
Go on to one of those getlaid sites. Find a girl in your area or london who's willing to bone you. You get the hotel, the girl and the thrill of your life.
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Legendary quote haha :)

Seriously though without been nosey here why did it end ? Was it something serious or trivial ? If it was something which can be easily mended maybe you could use that weekend as an attempt to get back on track ? That would be my first option.

Second id try to sell the tickets and have a good time with your lad mates, you need mates at a time like this.

Thirdly go down there and get completly anhilated beyond all reason. :)
 
4Play said:
Legendary quote haha :)

Seriously though without been nosey here why did it end ? Was it something serious or trivial ? If it was something which can be easily mended maybe you could use that weekend as an attempt to get back on track ? That would be my first option.

Second id try to sell the tickets and have a good time with your lad mates, you need mates at a time like this.

Thirdly go down there and get completly anhilated beyond all reason. :)
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It ended due to a few too many arguments over exam time and when that was over she was always in an off mood and well I wasnt the best to help her out over exam time etc... but it was too much for her she didnt want it to go too far and end up killing each other haha... but I did ask her to go and see what happens and she said no, but no one I think has been serious about an offer ?? :)
 
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