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TheCrow · 13 Feb 2010 at 22:28

Ye you might want to hit that, but do the right thing and send the husband the pictures so he can dump her sorry ass.

Note: Make sure you edit you out in any picks unless you like a good beating (and thats not the good type of beating the milf is going to give you).

Angilion · 13 Feb 2010 at 22:29

Minxy said:
That's all based on the assumption that the marriage is in a healthy state.

No, it isn't. It doesn't matter what state the marriage is in.

It is feasible that it probably isn't which is why she is looking to cheat in the first place.

Feasible and irrelevant.

I'm not trying to condone cheating but it's down to the two people in the marriage to make it work or not, outsiders don't have the responsibility to make anyone elses relationship work.

Who's arguing that they do? I'm not. You're bringing the point up and arguing against it, so you're arguing against yourself.

Plus the fact that people are not objects, you can't compare something with individual thoughts and feelings to an object so it's a totally different ball game. People aren't stolen from other people, they act of their own free will.

I haven't made that comparison. You have. You're arguing against yourself about that too.

skippy2421 · 13 Feb 2010 at 22:33

I think it entirely depends on your moral stand point to be honest, personally i couldn't do it knowing she's married even if she offered it up on a plate. I've been cheated on before, know what it's like and to be honest i wouldn't want to be the cause of someone feeling a similar way as i did at that time.

However she is offering it, so if it really doesn't bother you then go for it, for all you know she might go and do it to the next bloke if you don't. Like i said depends on an individuals morals.

Minxy · 13 Feb 2010 at 22:33

Angilion said:
No, it isn't. It doesn't matter what state the marriage is in.

Feasible and irrelevant.

Who's arguing that they do? I'm not. You're bringing the point up and arguing against it, so you're arguing against yourself.

I haven't made that comparison. You have. You're arguing against yourself about that too.

I brought up things in my post to support my point of view not because I was arguing with anything you or anyone else had said so responding with stuff such as "arguing against yourself" isn't really helpful.

At the end of the day its not the OP's marriage so I don't see why he should feel any kind of guilt. That's down to the wife since it's her relationship. All IMHO anyway, if you feel differently that's your choice.

arknor · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:10

Minxy said:
I brought up things in my post to support my point of view not because I was arguing with anything you or anyone else had said so responding with stuff such as "arguing against yourself" isn't really helpful.

At the end of the day its not the OP's marriage so I don't see why he should feel any kind of guilt. That's down to the wife since it's her relationship. All IMHO anyway, if you feel differently that's your choice.

next time it might be his marriage and he should be totally fine with it and show no ill feelings towards the bloke who bones his wife.

from your standpoint i hope your on the recieving end to at some point in your life but judging from your reponses in this thread only a fool would marry you.

^TANK^ · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:13

arknor said:
next time it might be his marriage and he should be totally fine with it and show no ill feelings towards the bloke who bones his wife.

from your standpoint i hope your on the recieving end to at some point in your life but judging from your reponses in this thread only a fool would marry you.

+1.

manoz · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:16

She's married. Don't do it. Simple.

Minxy · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:19

arknor said:
next time it might be his marriage and he should be totally fine with it and show no ill feelings towards the bloke who bones his wife.

from your standpoint i hope your on the recieving end to at some point in your life but judging from your reponses in this thread only a fool would marry you.

Just because I don't think its the singletons responsibility doesn't mean that I cheat on my partners so your post is just plain nasty tbh. You don't know anything about me other than what I've posted in this thread and you're making the assumption that I have not been on the recieving end so I suggest you keep your judgements to yourself.

arknor · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:23

Minxy said:
Just because I don't think its the singletons responsibility doesn't mean that I cheat on my partners so your post is just plain nasty tbh. You don't know anything about me other than what I've posted in this thread so I suggest you keep your judgements to yourself.

i wonder how your "partners" would judge you if they saw this thread

Minxy · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:25

arknor said:
i wonder how your "partners" would judge you if they saw this thread

Why would that matter? From my point of view if my partner cheated on me I wouldn't be holding the person they cheated with responsible. My issue would be with my partner. Plus I've said I don't do cheating so I fail to see why my partners either past, present or future would be concerned. :confused:

skippy2421 · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:26

arknor said:
next time it might be his marriage and he should be totally fine with it and show no ill feelings towards the bloke who bones his wife.

from your standpoint i hope your on the recieving end to at some point in your life but judging from your reponses in this thread only a fool would marry you.

Little harsh on the ending of that post but the first bit is something the OP should seriously think about before he acts. What goes around comes around and all that

Minxy said:
I brought up things in my post to support my point of view not because I was arguing with anything you or anyone else had said so responding with stuff such as "arguing against yourself" isn't really helpful.

At the end of the day its not the OP's marriage so I don't see why he should feel any kind of guilt. That's down to the wife since it's her relationship. All IMHO anyway, if you feel differently that's your choice.

You've taken quite a narrow minded view on this, as pointed out by others, there's more than two people involved in this. Perhaps if her husband is some right idiot who cheats on her too then ok perhaps she is justified in cheating (A divorce in this scenario tends to work better). What if he is some nice guy who works hard for her to have everything she wants and she's merely after something on the side, it would break the poor blokes heart if he ever found out.

I understand why you might have the view that he is not in the wrong here as she has led him on and shame on her for doing so. However you must have very little conscience or never been cheated on before by someone you really care about to think there's nothing wrong at all with this.

EDIT: i'm not trying to remove the blame from the woman in this at all but it does take two to tango.

Minxy · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:29

skippy2421 said:
I understand why you might have the view that he is not in the wrong here as she has led him on and shame on her for doing so. However you must have very little conscience or never been cheated on before by someone you really care about to think there's nothing wrong at all with this.

I haven't condoned it, what I've said is that is that I don't think it's his responsibility. If I had no conscience I'd have no problem with cheating at all which obviously I do, very much so. The marriage is down to the two individuals in it to make it work, if one of them is so easily led that they are willing to cheat on their partner then that is down to them, not the third party. I'd feel very sorry for the woman's husband for what it's worth, no one has said it's right.

*edit* Just for info, I was cheated on by my last partner but I didn't take it out on the person he was cheating with.

Cosimo · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:30

arknor said:
i wonder how your "partners" would judge you if they saw this thread

SWIMBO is sitting here reading this thread on a laptop and having a giggle. She thinks we are all immature.

TurbotH · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:40

so much win. Where is her husband? In another country?

Cosimo · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:43

TurbotH said:
so much win. Where is her husband? In another country?

He’s probably waiting for them in the bedroom.

skippy2421 · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:43

Minxy said:
I haven't condoned it, what I've said is that is that I don't think it's his responsibility. If I had no conscience I'd have no problem with cheating at all which obviously I do, very much so. The marriage is down to the two individuals in it to make it work, if one of them is so easily led that they are willing to cheat on their partner then that is down to them, not the third party. I'd feel very sorry for the woman's husband for what it's worth, no one has said it's right.

I'm not denying that the marriage in question is in trouble and the fact that she is offering it up to the OP just highlights this. But the fact that you state the OP has no responsibility clearly knowing she is taken is ludicrous. In that situation yes you would be more hurt by your partner obviously due to you trusting them etc. etc. however the lack of respect that would have been showed by the OP for doing this would surely get at you no?

Minxy said:
*edit* Just for info, I was cheated on by my last partner but I didn't take it out on the person he was cheating with.

I am sorry to hear that Minxy. However with that in mind surely you can't stand there and say the OP would have done absolutely nothing wrong?

Minxy · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:46

skippy2421 said:
I am sorry to hear that Minxy. However with that in mind surely you can't stand there and say the OP would have done absolutely nothing wrong?

She didn't have a responsibility to me, he did when we entered into the relationship. Sorry if that's a bit black and white for some folks, it's just the way I see it.

Skippy, thanks for your responses. I'd much rather discuss it with someone than just have abusive comments made because of my point of view.

.Sean · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:47

I am demanding pics before I contribute any further to this thread.

^TANK^ · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:49

Minxy said:
She didn't have a responsibility to me, he did when we entered into the relationship. Sorry if that's a bit black and white for some folks, it's just the way I see it.

Skippy, thanks for your responses. I'd much rather discuss it with someone than just have abusive comments made because of my point of view.

Did the guy that slept with your ex know she was in a relationship at the time Minxy?

Minxy · 13 Feb 2010 at 23:52

^TANK^ said:
Did the guy that slept with your ex know she was in a relationship at the time Minxy?

I believe she did yes. It was someone he works with and they all tend to socialise a lot so I'd be very surprised if she didn't know, plus she was on his facebook and our pages were linked through relationship status.