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Good job of well and truely missing the point
Rather than leave it there, I'll add the point.
Im on holiday having fun, A woman comes up to me having fun. She's obviously out to get the leg over, I'm fine by it. Thats the way I see it.
She turns out to be married yes, But why should it be my job to show respect to a stranger when his wife, the one who married him isnt doing it. If she's willing to sleep around, the marriage is doomed anyways, So **** it.
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You said you were being victimised by me. That's making me out to be an abuser.
You've done so because my opinion differs from yours. Perhaps your comments about a difference of opinion being unacceptable reflect your own views. They don't reflect mine. I expect some people to disagree with me on a public forum - it would be very strange if they didn't. If they disagree by arguing why they do so, good. They might have a good point and might change my view. If they disagree by claiming I'm victimising them by disagreeing with them and that I'm not allowing a difference of opinion, that's not good. But it reflects on them rather than on me.
Talking about stolen goods and relationships are far from the same, to compare the two as the same doesn't say much for your experience with the opposite sex.
People don't post for an argument, you have decided to read a comment and engage in an internet fight rather than accept someone else has a different opinion to you.
Your not an abuser, but a keyboard warrior.
"Somebody else would do it, so I might as well do it" isn't much of an argument.
You don't need to show respect to a stranger in order to not screw their spouse. A lack of contemptuous dismissal for them is enough.
Personally, the reason I wouldn't do it is because I think infidelity is wrong. Since I think infidelity is wrong, I wouldn't take part in it, certainly not such an active part. What I think about their spouse doesn't affect that. Even if I didn't give a damn about anyone I didn't know, even if I hated them, I still wouldn't do it. Not because of them, but because of me.
It's a metaphor. The idea I was arguing is that knowingly benefitting from something wrong is wrong in itself, even if you aren't doing the wrong thing. Your silly insult just makes you look bad.
Accepting that someone else has a different opinion does not require silence. Disagreeing with a position publically made on a forum is not a fight.
You obviously have no idea what that phrase means.
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Thats where we're different then. I would do it, And feel no shame in saying so. It's another part of my life that I'd enjoy. Saying that...i also believe infidelity is wrong, and i would never commit it myself.
I never said you should simply disagree and move on, if you don't agree then by all means voice your opinion if you want to. Maybe you shouldn't go reading inbetween lines.
If you're going to disagree and comment at least try to do it without ramming your opinion into someones throat, people won't agree with you too you know.
I'll ignore the last part of your comment because you have already said that you are angry in an earlier post
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No actually i completely got the point. I was just being awkward in my reply as i simply could not be bothered to engage in a debate with you as well as other people i was talking to, but seeing as you have taken the time to edit your post i shall acknowledge it with a reply.
I completely accept the marriage is "doomed" as you put it and there's no denying that. Who you decide to show respect to is completely up to you, who am i to dictate that. Personally i prefer to show people a tad more respect regardless of wether i know them or not, just because i have not met them it does not make them any less worthy of my respect, They're a person with feelings i owe them at least some acknowledgement even if i don't know them.
As for her not showing him respect, what's that got to do with anything? She is not willing to stick to the vows she made so what's to say she has any respect for anything? Personally i hate cheating, so would play no part in it myself in any form what so ever. Your views on the matter are obviously different to mine hence the differing opinion, which is fair enough. Each to their own.
Edit: don't take my awkward response earlier personally it's just if i was to answer every post on here fully i'd never leave this typing box, it's just your post come across as one of those you often get in this forum (unconstructive with nothing to add) however seeing as you have explained you point i can see this is not the case.
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It is not possible to condone sleeping with an individual who is married to another. Its one of the most dissgraceful acts which anyone can commit and one of the most soul destroying thing to discover. Simply put dont go there you will destroy someones life.
This is interesting. If you believe that infidelity is wrong, why would you take part in it and feel no shame in saying so?
Since I didn't, I have another question for you:
What would you approve of me doing other than stating "I disagree" without saying why or supporting my point?
Right, I went out tonight and didn't see her, she's staying close by but I'm not sure if I should go by. I fully understand the cheating thing, I had a gf I was head over heals with that broke my heart and cheated.
I was diving with her the other day and let me say there's a lot of 20yo women that would be jealous of her figure in a bikini. I couldn't believe it myself, a 51yo milf, I thought they just existed in movies.
She's Canadian, thus her hubby is about 5000 miles away from where we are.
I've never seen myself as the guy that sleeps with other guys women, in fact it's usually the opposite. It has got me thinking though, how many married women are doing this? We all know that women are more crafty than men, it's in their genetics to find the best mate but not put other males off.
If I do get pictures it means I will have done the deed and gone along to her place, so maybe I can justify it in the name of OCUK?
I was diving with her the other day and let me say there's a lot of 20yo women that would be jealous of her figure in a bikini. I couldn't believe it myself, a 51yo milf, I thought they just existed in movies.
She's Canadian, thus her hubby is about 5000 miles away from where we are.
I've never seen myself as the guy that sleeps with other guys women, in fact it's usually the opposite. It has got me thinking though, how many married women are doing this? We all know that women are more crafty than men, it's in their genetics to find the best mate but not put other males off.
If I do get pictures it means I will have done the deed and gone along to her place, so maybe I can justify it in the name of OCUK?
v. few women are _that_ devoted...
