kissed a mates girlfriend last night

converse_uprise · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:06

^TANK^ said:
I hope he stoves your head in, I would what a **** friend you are!

I'd like to see you say that without your keyboard you puny little geek.

converse_uprise · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:08

Nix said:
You only want to hurt the other guy because you see him as some form of threat to your masculinity. Try and put your masculinity aside for a change; it's not in question.

Absolute rubbish, where do you get this trash from?

^TANK^ · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:09

converse_uprise said:
I'd like to see you say that without your keyboard you puny little geek.

Lol.

Chimerical · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:10

Angry converse_uprise is angry.

converse_uprise · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:10

Luckily I read the sports forum. So I think i'll back away from this fight now if you don't mind

Nix · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:10

converse_uprise said:
Absolute rubbish, where do you get this trash from?

Probably the same place you learnt how to be a responsible adult.

Tom0 · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:10

A well constructed post at last.

converse_uprise said:
Easy to talk the calm collected game.

Indeed it is, talk is cheap. I'll admit it's hard not to get overwhelmed and over-react. I used to do it too and have learnt the hard way like many others.
Controlling emotions takes time and understanding, learning from mistakes. An over-reaction can be just as costly as making the mistake in the first place.

converse_uprise said:
On a night out, with alcohol involved aswell. I'm just saying, in my opinion, I feel it would be a different matter. The vast majority of the time.

Emotions do run high when booze in involved, but you just have to remember...

converse_uprise said:
If you can be that better man, fine, fair play to you.

You could be the bigger man, yes you might be drunk and yes you may want to smack them but walk away from the situation. Run if you have to.
Sobering up, calming down and moving away from such people is far better than a drunken drama.

converse_uprise said:
I would never be able to control myself in that situation. And i would put money a lot of other people would be exactly the same.

You can't say never, you believe you're this way. Believe otherwise. Ask yourself is it right to think that it's acceptable to believe you can't change and understand it's not worth it?

converse_uprise said:
And all this besides. I think its disgusting the OP went to kiss his friends girlfriend. Whether or not the kiss was returned, that is irrelevant. It speaks volume about the type of person he is.

I agree.

Feef · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:12

4Play said:
an eye for an eye thats the way that the world works.

It's really not - and the reason the world does work is quite possibly because it's not. I'm with the "talk/remove from life" group on this - there are very few situations I can think of where the first step should be to punch someone.

converse_uprise · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:13

Chimerical said:
Angry converse_uprise is angry.

I'm not angry in the slightest pal, there's just a few too many people on this forum that don't spend enough time in the real world.

shauncr91 · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:15

converse_uprise said:
I'd like to see you say that without your keyboard you puny little geek.

Hahahahahahahaha

Nix · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:17

converse_uprise said:
I'm not angry in the slightest pal, there's just a few too many people on this forum that don't spend enough time in the real world.

I'm pretty sure that I've spent all my time in the 'real-world', thank you.

Time for you to try climbing up that next rung on that ladder of personal development, don't you think?

Tom0 · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:18

converse_uprise said:
I'm not angry in the slightest pal, there's just a few too many people on this forum that don't spend enough time in the real world.

Oh, the irony.

This guy is as closed minded as he is closed fisted after a few beers it seems.

I'm done.

converse_uprise · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:19

The reason cheating culture is around is because not enough people react.

Its way too easy to forgive and be the better person. If everyone was downright vicious and violent when stuff like this did happen... it wouldn't occur.

I lay down the law with my girlfriend, I let her know exactly what would happen if she ever cheated on me, and luckily she feels exactly the same. Too many people are push overs.

^TANK^ · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:20

I find it completely odd that there are people in this thread that wouldn't go ape **** witnessing their partner kissing someone else. I do agree with Nix though on what he has posted, I myself am incredibly insecure paranoid and can get jealous easily. But thats down to being burnt a lot.

converse_uprise · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:21

Nix said:
I'm pretty sure that I've spent all my time in the 'real-world', thank you.

Time for you to try climbing up that next rung on that ladder of personal development, don't you think?

The comment was aimed at the first people to scream keyboard warrior when any sort of violence is worded on this forum.

converse_uprise · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:23

^TANK^ said:
I find it completely odd that there are people in this thread that wouldn't go ape **** witnessing their partner kissing someone else. I do agree with Nix though on what he has posted, I myself am incredibly insecure paranoid and can get jealous easily. But thats down to being burnt a lot.

It baffles me. I can't see it.

Oh.. darling.. you're kissing another man. Oh well, plenty of fisho's in the sea. Back to the bar chaps.

Nix · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:25

converse_uprise said:
The comment was aimed at the first people to scream keyboard warrior when any sort of violence is worded on this forum.

That's fine, but my advice still stands. I seriously suggest you try and learn to control yourself, you'll be a better person for it and you know it.

You're entitled to hit morons when they push you far enough, but it shouldn't be your first reaction. If you go in there fists waving, you're just as bad as these amoral bumholes who do cheat. Rise above it.

shauncr91 · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:26

^TANK^ said:
I find it completely odd that there are people in this thread that wouldn't go ape **** witnessing their partner kissing someone else. I do agree with Nix though on what he has posted, I myself am incredibly insecure paranoid and can get jealous easily. But thats down to being burnt a lot.

I think it's situational tbh.

If you're out on a random night out and some bloke tries flirting with your GF there's no reason to go crazy at the man and kick his head in, a polite explanation that she's taken and with you is all it takes the first time he tries it, afterwards then I can condone taking it a bit further but not violence.

If you're partner is playing along then you should be angry at her not the other man, after all you can't expect everybody to know who's single in a place and who's not.

Unfortunately we can't all be as alpha-badass as converse_uprise.

Chimerical · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:26

Monogamy is an outdated idea.

Doohickey · 19 Mar 2010 at 01:27

shauncr91 said:
Hahahahahahahaha

Um, I believe converse_uprise was playing on everyone else having jumped on him for being a keyboard warrior, rather than actually calling Tank a puny little geek.

With regards to the OP, what a ****** up thing to do to your 'mate'. And in all honesty, keyboards and all, I'd be sorely inclined to deck whoever did that to my girlfriend. I disagree about finding it a threat to my masculinity; it's because it's well out of order. Probably not worth it in retrospect, but in the heat of the moment, deliberately, knowingly and in front of my face? I don't know.