Just found out my ex has a new boyfriend

You seriously need to just say, fine - time to move on - the best thing would be to find someone else, the chase alone will take your mind of things!

It took me a year of moping to get over my ex, albeit we were at Uni together so for 6months of that I saw her daily with her new boyfriend - which was not nice - and actually in the 4 years we have been apart I have only seen a few girls, but I have been dating a girl for the last 6months who trumps my ex in every way and I am very happy that it ended when it did, made me stronger and laid the path to my current missus (of course I expect when/if this relationship ends it will lead the way to the next love of my life... and the next, and the next, and the next...)

Seriously, just find a new hottie - and start chasing.
 
Fair enough you still have feelings for her, but its been a year mate, that's a bit excessive. Best thing to do is just cut any ties, including deleting on facebook etc and forget about her.

It's a big world and there are literally millions of pasties to smash and so little time, so you best get cracking :D
 
Given how gay that post is, it sounds like you're the one wanting the new boyfriend;)

On a more helpful note, sleep around a bit. In doing so you will have some fun but may bump parts with someone you could have a relationship with.
 
I found it not in any way worrying when my ex got together with a guy with a child and MS, whilst I found a new gf 100 times more awesome than she ever was.
 
MarkDavis said:
Even though been its a year since we broke up, am feeling pretty gutted. Feels like I've been left behind on the scrap heap.

Clearly, she's moved on, whereas I've been thinking about her ever since we broke up. She also looks different as well - different hairstyle, more exuberant, lots of makeup, big beaming smile. I don't recognise her. He looks a bit pensive in the photos. I wonder if she'll grind him down with her volatility when she doesn't get her own way, or if they'll liver happily ever after?

Gutted :(

Really don't know why its taking me so long to get over this. Have had a couple of one night flings since, but I miss her love, even though she was a bit intense.

*sigh*
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Is this the reason for your constant trolling in Motors?

As said, grow a set and move on. Bang some other women if you have the confidence to do it.
 
As other people have said delete her on FB, sorry to hear that you still think about her, dont waste anymore time letting your life slip away thinking of her, start healing yourself and get your confidence back.

go and do things which you couldn't do when you were together, and enjoy it. let go and move on. it's not easy and everyone goes through it. but once you get past the healing stage its for the win.

some things to think about.
.you can come home whenever you want.
.stay up till what ever time.
.no nagging gf telling you to do housework
.watching your favourite dvd's
.pulling women and getting numbers
.not having to compromise if your mates ask you to come out.
.you can bring home whoever you want.

the list goes on.
 
If she has changed herself on the outside the likelyhood is that the issue, when going out with you, was in her head, if you get me?

Stop moaping on here though, go out and get your balls sucked.
 
My mate's fiance who he had bought a house with, cheated on him whilst she was pregnant and then left with the other guy.

He managed to move on, find someone else, buy a new house and still look after the kid so I'm sure you'll be fine! If I ever break up with someone I just think back to what he went through and survived and it all gets put in perspective.

Years later he is now engaged to a younger, slimmer girl who isn't a psycho so it worked out better in the end!
 
Least you've got a number of reasons for breaking up to remind you of why and help you move on.

I've got one reason that doesn't even make sense. Probably why I'm still in love almost 4 months after breaking up.
 
get over it, should take a few pointers from my cousin. He got a new gf within a week = ) I think his previous relationship was about 3 years.
 
You need to delete her from your life - this is the route I usually take.

It worked for me, although if you have a lot of shared friends it could be more difficult.

BB x
 
If you haven't already, start by working out. It's the key to a positive mind, self-confidence and NOT being needy.

I went through this a few years ago and realised the problem wasn't to do with that particular girl - it was to do with my thinking I actually needed any girl.

A lot of guys don't figure this and resolve it - so keep going from one relationship to the next being needy and getting dumped. It's a guaranteed path to problems.

Get yourself to a place and level of confidence where you will never need a girl again - then you'll have much better relationships and far more control.
 
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