Annoying guy hassling my girlfriend

More than meets the eye. I think your girlfriend has slept with him and is leading him on!

Know quite a few lasses who do that ****.
 
M0T said:
Are you entirely sure that she didn't go out with him? I know quite a few girls who have gone out with several guys at once before making their minds up with which one they want.
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^^^ above is possible - though more likely, if she'd just got together with the OP, she was probably not going to totally reject him but wasn't going to do anything with him whilst currently dating the OP.

If you've only just started seeing a girl you don't completely cut off other girls you might have fooled around with as your new relationship might well not last long.

Am guessing now its got to the point where he has become a pest and the OP needs to tell his gf to be a bit firmer with him when rejecting him. Failing that OP needs to have a word - though preferably not in a night club whilst drunk....
 
Parky said:
Thanks for advice peeps, will talk to the gf tonight about the police.

Just to clear up, it was only a snog on the dancefloor, I have friends who were there that night and we even talked about it with her the next day. He generally seems like a complete wierdo to me.
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Maybe he's just really lonely and wants someone to finally touch his penis?
 
Parky said:
Thanks for advice peeps, will talk to the gf tonight about the police.

Just to clear up, it was only a snog on the dancefloor, I have friends who were there that night and we even talked about it with her the next day. He generally seems like a complete wierdo to me.
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What will happen is you will get some first contact officer at the station and then some constable will go round to his place of residence and beat him to death with trunchons...

or they will just give him a warning most likely, either way he will get the message if his not a total idiot!
 
Its also possible that shes led him on by accident.

Because she knew what he wanted he may have thought that by continuing to talk to him she wanted more. Weirdo stalkers will often read more into what has been said than is actually there.

Easiest thing would be to get her to submit a police complaint, the only issue would be with the mutual friend but the fact that he keeps physically grabbing her would make me worried for her safety and would override that. He seems to be unhinged.
 
Sell him a single night of passion for £50. He can get it 'out' of his system, you're up £50, and your girlfriend will get left alone.

Everyone's a winner!
 
Your girl needs to stop being so kind and just tell him to gtf in no uncertain terms.

Failing that you can either tell the police (i personally don't think the police will care about a love triangle until a crime occurs) or you could stalk him, wait until hes alone in a secluded place and ninjitsu his ass.
 
I'd talk with the GF first before going to the police - if his 'harassment' has been put across as cheeky banter and her rebuttals have been friendly/flirty then it might explain why he's continued.

From his perspective perhaps, he's pulled a girl, she maybe said lots of stuff while drunk that has made him think he's in there, she's started hanging around with/seeing some other guy. He keeps trying it on, thinks she's still interested but can't do anything because the boyfriend is there too... boyfriend is obviously angry as he can see that the g/f likes him too...

or something like that - I don't think people generally tend to carry on pursuing women if they've blatantly been told NO on several occasions - for some reason or other the guy obviously still thinks he's got a chance
 
Poo in your pants and then next time he's out just run over and throw them at him.

Make sure that hit his face though and make sure they stick.

I assure you he will not bother you again.

Thank me in the morning.
 
dowie said:
I'd talk with the GF first before going to the police - if his 'harassment' has been put across as cheeky banter and her rebuttals have been friendly/flirty then it might explain why he's continued.

From his perspective perhaps, he's pulled a girl, she maybe said lots of stuff while drunk that has made him think he's in there, she's started hanging around with/seeing some other guy. He keeps trying it on, thinks she's still interested but can't do anything because the boyfriend is there too... boyfriend is obviously angry as he can see that the g/f likes him too...

or something like that - I don't think people generally tend to carry on pursuing women if they've blatantly been told NO on several occasions - for some reason or other the guy obviously still thinks he's got a chance
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I think that as well.

Why does she keep hanging around chatting to him?

If she really has told him to do one then I can't see him going back for more every time he's out :/

Did she do the horizontal nasties with him but told you it was a kiss? He seems awfully persistent for someone that's only got a snog out of her :/

I think my advice is better in the long run though.
 
malc30 said:
I would tell the places you go as you enter that your GF is being Stalked & you may need some help if he turns up. ;)
Also ring the old bill & report him so it's on record.
Sounds like your GF is handling it well & you have done well not to batter him.
Hopefully he'll get the message if the old bill visit him or the Bouncers sling him out as a Stalker.
Good luck.
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Sounds like very good advice, it might well also be worth keeping a log. Also try to keep track of who else was present when things happened.
 
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