I have had a stalker for a few months... girl at work who thought I fancied her (I didn't see it at all) but she was a right one and it really caused me loads of problems. I hope you and your GF can sort it out it can really stress you.
Annoying guy hassling my girlfriend
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I have had a stalker for a few months... girl at work who thought I fancied her (I didn't see it at all) but she was a right one and it really caused me loads of problems. I hope you and your GF can sort it out it can really stress you.
... believe the women to be in the right?
Not sure what you mean, the women I've known tend to be in the bedroom or in the kitchen, I don't have any rooms call 'right'
.Personally I think LOAMs answer was the most reasonable to be followed up by reporting to the police if that does not resolve it.
Alternatively;
As he like to ambush your GF coming out of the ladies toilets, take a wig and matching outfit and at the end of the night when he is likely to be good and drunk, nip in to the ladies and get dressed up like your girlfriend, come out and get grabbed by him at which time plant a big wet kiss on him whilst your girlfriend takes a picture and just to make sure the expression suits the moment, grab hit happy sacs in a vice like grip and squeeze hard.
Don't like that one ?... Ok what about;
Suggest going for a trip to France by ferry saying you want everyone to be friends. Let the customs over in Calais know he is coming so they can be ready to greet him with some handcuffs and a pair of disposible rubber gloves.
Nah... ok then, here is another;
When having your man to man chat slip some laxative in his beer. Don't overdo it, don't want to kill the guy, just help him to cleanse from the inside
.On a more serious note...
How likely are her friends to lie for her ?.
Explain to her you are very upset by the way he is treating her and it is having an impact on your relationship and so she needs to tell him outright to leave her alone or she will go to the police. If he continues then she needs to go to the police. No point making the threat and then not following through. If she refuses then just like transformers, there may be 'more than meets the eye'.
RB
Not sure what you mean, the women I've known tend to be in the bedroom or in the kitchen, I don't have any rooms call 'right'
haha i see you only meet the best kind of women then
Personally i would confront him, not in a night club, go to the pub for a pint and ask him what his problem is, tell him that your gf is not interested and if he doesn't back off then further steps will be taken.
however like other people have posted there are 2 sides, i find it abit weird that he's like that, from a guys prospective that she either led him on thinking that she's given him false promises, or she still texts him, the question i would ask is why is he still doing this cause blokes normally get the hint once they been rejected.
however like other people have posted there are 2 sides, i find it abit weird that he's like that, from a guys prospective that she either led him on thinking that she's given him false promises, or she still texts him, the question i would ask is why is he still doing this cause blokes normally get the hint once they been rejected.
Those going for violence over trying to find the real story are a bunch of neanderthals 
It's funny how in almost every situation, partners will always stand up for each other even if they are wrong, then voilence comes into it and someone who didn't deserve it gets hurt.
Personally I'm sick and tired of dramatic crap like this and have managed to avoid it for a long time, if I had a GF and this started happening I would be in two minds about what actually is going on.
It's funny how in almost every situation, partners will always stand up for each other even if they are wrong, then voilence comes into it and someone who didn't deserve it gets hurt.
Personally I'm sick and tired of dramatic crap like this and have managed to avoid it for a long time, if I had a GF and this started happening I would be in two minds about what actually is going on.
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Need pics of your GF before any good advice can be given tbh.
The first few responses to this thread are epic, especially a fan of;
The first few responses to this thread are epic, especially a fan of;
Just an update, Had a chat last night with the gf to make sure she was being completely honest, tbh I believe her. I talked to my mate who's known this guy for years and apparently this guy has done somthing similar to other people in the past, including one of his mate's ex's.
It seems he's known to the police and he's stopped in the past when the police have been involved. Me and the gf are going to go down to the station after work and tell them what's been happening, hopefully this will be sorted soon.
It seems he's known to the police and he's stopped in the past when the police have been involved. Me and the gf are going to go down to the station after work and tell them what's been happening, hopefully this will be sorted soon.
Hope it gets sorted for you. I was in a similar situation with my girlfriend now of two years, the slime ball still tried his luck when I wasnt around.
nice one
Dear god man, have you not read this thread. Your girlfriend must not be trusted and has obviously been sleeping with this chap. Your mate telling you that this other guy has issues is in on it too and is nailing your bird as we speak.
Sorry, I apologise but you cannot expect to get any advice on here that does not point to your girlfriend cheating on you. Its just an impossibility. I dont know why... maybe people just cant be bothered being serious or maybe they hate all women and believe them incapable of any good. Either way, relationship threads are a no no if you actually want advice.
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what would the police do exactly? going to them just sounds like hassle in my opinion. The police obviously hasnt done their job if he has done it a few times in the past.
the bloke sounds like he needs a good kick in, your girlfriend will appreciate it as it will give her a reminder who is more alpha.
Wimps goto the police
Real men sort it out with fists.