GF gone on holiday with ex !!

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I know you lot love these sort of threads, so here's my current one for your dissection.

I don't know about you but to me this is bang out of order.
I could understand it if it was planned and paid for from the past relationship... but it wasn't.

I could understand it if she went with a group of mixed male and female mates.. but she didn't.

Apparently though it's OK because he's now gay!!

She must think I was born yesterday.
I never mentioned my disdain over it, thinking she's just trying to get a rise out of me or something.
She mentioned in passing one evening about him contacting her out of the blue and going to Paris or some such city abroad..
At the time I thought "LOL what a chump" asking her out now, as if she is going to go..
Well short and sweet of it is she did Yesterday.. For four nights...

Needless to say I wont be waiting for her when she gets back..
The most cutting thing I have thought about at the moment is blocking her from my facebook. lol :rolleyes:

I don't know about you but is she really insane or am I seeing it all wrong.

Help me out here because all the women I seem to be latching onto for the last year or so have (in my mind) turned out to be complete psychos)
Are they really all as bad as this? Are there any good ones out there anywhere or am I destined to be lumbered with trying to deal with this sort of insanity for the rest of my days should I want to be with those aliens from Venus.
 
Get rid

even if she's not upto anything she must be quite dumb if she fails to see how her going with him could affect your feelings towards her, and if she does understand that and still goes then she obviously doesn;t give a crap about you
 
sorry to hear that. thats got to be tough.

Can you ring her and try and talk it over? altho, gay or not, i wouldn't be waiting when she gets home either.
 
Post a video on Youtube of you cutting up her clothes before binbagging them and dumping them outside. :) Then email her the link.
 
ouch! thts not on m8 best i can say is, see how it pans out when she gets back,, see if shes acting different or sumthing as for the psyco bit im pretty sure all women are its in their blood lol
 
Dump her immediately , gay or not, what she has done is out of order and shows nothing but total disdain for you. Relationship is doomed and from here on in it will only be a question of when you break up not if.
 
That's a rather despicable thing for her to do, really. If it was a deliberate attempt at getting a rise out if you, then she's obviously not worth being with. If she's too stupid to realise the effect it'd have on you...then she's obviously not worth bothering with.
 
your just as insane as her for not telling her that you dont agree with it




from the other direction though my housemate turned a lad gay (well thats what we always told her:p) and she remained best mates with him all through uni even when she was seeing other guys and he was seeing guys. he was camper than xmas though to be fair and any of her boyfriends would have seen this and not felt threatened
 
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Go on holiday with some other chick while she's away and don't tell her. If you've got any lined up.

If not just dump her when she gets back, cause even if this guy genuinely is hom then it's still insensitive and out of order imo. Do not dump her via Facebook, dump her face-to-face and with a smirk. Then she'll think you don't really care and have someone else anyway.
 
Let her go, when she gets back and you're not there just say you were just staying round your ex-birds for company ;)

Seriously though, it seems a bit daft; I wouldn't stand for it.

For the second question, I do believe all women are nutters. You've just got to find one that has a trait you can deal with, going on couples holidays to romantic cities with ex's isn't one of them.
 
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