but the whole concept of breaking it down to this saddens me in a way and it's because of this; even if you live your entire life on your own, never meet your soul mate, get married, have your own family etc unless you are very unfortuanate (and i know that this does happen but would not dare to comment on it any further than my acknowledgement of it) one is raised by parents who love them and would do anything for them to give them the best they can in life through love and providing. do you not find it very sad that you should only be attached to your parents in this way for such a comparitively short space of time? my mum was 28 when i was born, my dad 32, say they both live to 90, that's only 60 years i would know them (there or there about) and then once life is over - is that it? how can one be expected to accept that? surely if that was what one truely believed then there would be no real point in forming a bond? i can only use the example of parents as i have no children myself but if i did i would feel a little dissapointed to accept that maybe i may really only be with them for 60 years (as an example) and then .... nothing? i think there has to be more to it than that, that's what i like to believe anyway