Have you ever been accused of cheating?

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Happened to me last night - completely out of the blue.
The grounds for it? We've just introduced an IP phone system at work, so when I called home from our office in the north (where I stay for a night) the number displayed was my usual location in the south. She subsequently thinks I never went away.

I was simply told 'how convenient' along with 'where were you that night' etc.

I feel terrible this morning, really hurt. I'd never do that, ever. And we have a young child. I'm a devoted dad and hold very traditional values when it comes to relationships.

Now I don't know what to do. :(
 
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I don't think so. Nobody ever really knows. The worst part was trying to explain - it all sounded like some far reaching excuse but it's the truth. I was 'put on the spot' and it felt awful.
 
When me and my wife got togeather she was already pregnant, and i had time to myself to decide if i was doing the right thing and if it was what i really wanted.

But being a hormonal pregnant woman i got accused of cheating a lot :p Wasn't nice trying to prove/explain that i hadn't all the time, even more so with me REALLY hating people cheat.
 
Neodite said:
When me and my wife got togeather she was already pregnant, and i had time to myself to decide if i was doing the right thing and if it was what i really wanted.

But being a hormonal pregnant woman i got accused of cheating a lot :p Wasn't nice trying to prove/explain that i hadn't all the time, even more so with me REALLY hating people cheat.
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well OPs missus could be pregnant then:p
 
Did you buy anything (i.e Petrol, food) or get any cash out of a local northern cash machine, These would prove you were north instead of south.

You should not really have to prove anything but stamp this one on it's head and see where it goes from there, She may have some confidence issue's or it may be guilt for something she has done of is doing (i hope not).

Don't accuse her though as you will just get her saying "oh you always turn it around on me".
 
unless you prove otherwise about that night i think this will be brought up again in the future 'arguments'.
 
Has she been cheated on before? Not saying it makes it right, but maybe a bit more understandable as to why she'd have insecurities about it.

If you've never done anything to give her reason to not trust you, then prove it this one time, and if she carries on accusing you, either find a way together to sort out her trust issues, or end the relationship.
 
The second you have to start proving things to your girlfriend is when you really need to think about whether there is any point carrying on.
 
Yes, when my [ex] gf was very drunk. It was completely ridiculous.

She behaved like a bitch too often when drunk. She even told me that a previous bf of hers would refuse to meet her for an evening if he knew she'd had over a certain amount already.

Bitter edit: I just remembered it was her birthday. I'd taken her out for the evening, bought her presents, and as I went to get some cash to pay for the taxi home she went through my texts [no idea why] and found some completely banal messages from a female colleague [i.e. "I'm going to be late today, sorry" kind of stuff]. I stopped the taxi, gave her £20 and told her to make her own way back. What a crap way to end the night.
 
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Your company is mad to put the geographical number out. Most larger companies that have ip telephony put out an ngn instead
 
Morba said:
Your company is mad to put the geographical number out. Most larger companies that have ip telephony put out an ngn instead
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Usually only for 'public' lines, personal DDI numbers are often still geographic.

As for the OP, if she really doesn't believe you, then get some solid evidence.
There's always a question of trust in situations like these but it's not having a massive barney over.
 
[TW]Fox;17212602 said:
The second you have to start proving things to your girlfriend is when you really need to think about whether there is any point carrying on.
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Thirded. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship, without it you're just waiting for it to crash and burn.
 
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