Dating..

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anticonscience said:
She's not 18.
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lol?


anyway cheers for the replies guys, i think i'll just try and chill out, just atm i am well stressed about a few things and with this as well i was on a right downer. thing is she doesnt drive and lives about 4 miles away which basically means im driving, therefore i cant drink lol
 
Eliot said:
lol?


anyway cheers for the replies guys, i think i'll just try and chill out, just atm i am well stressed about a few things and with this as well i was on a right downer. thing is she doesnt drive and lives about 4 miles away which basically means im driving, therefore i cant drink lol
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Perfect, she can drink and hopefully the spoils will be all yours... Enjoy..!!
 
i will lol expect the Success/Failure story on Thursday.

Guarantee my mates will give me stick about her age lol, oh well im not bothered
 
Eliot said:
i know i am properly worried about going somewhere and having nothing to say, but at the same time it seems strange to not no someone that well and just be like, Yo so you wanna come karting?
You know what i mean? i dunno... im pretty sure we should talk fine, we did when we were out, but i had dutch courage on my side then.
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Well instead of talking about things in general and second guessing her, just her, What films do you like, what is fav colour and why, what food do you like, tell me about your friends etc.
Just let her chat about her self, best way, gilrs like a man that can listen ! ! ;)

Then then there is that pastry !
 
kapows said:
pretend shes a boy
a boy youve known
what would you do
youd make the plans
so make a plan
have fun
most likely youre gonna have awkward silences
she'll realise youre not the guy she thought you were in the club
talking for an hour and a half and now struggling to put a decent
coherent sensible string of words together?were you on weed at the time?
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OHH the ironing

make a mental list of random stuff to discuss, use it if it goes quiet. I would say a cosy pub with sofa's is a good start. Ask lots of questions, then ask questions about the answers given, tis easy really
 
Definitely do something like bowling or you feel under pressure to make conversation. Don't go to the cinema because you don't get the chance to interact then.
 
thing is its sort of all organised so if i change my mind isnt that a bit i dunno, like not giving a very good impression. Besides im **** at bowling
 
Take her to a fiddy cent gig. Brap brap brap!

On a serious note what do you have in common? If food then maybe somewhere you can eat, sushi would be good especially one on the rotatary belts as you don't have set course and can take more time if needed
 
Don't go to the cinema, it'll be two hours where you can't talk to each other. I would go for more of a casual date than anything too posh or formal. What do you like doing? What does she like doing? If you can talk to her for an hour and a half then I'm sure you could just suggest something, see what she says and ask her if she has any ideas of her own. It doesn't have to be you who decides by guessing.

Having said that, I met my wife when I'd gone out with a friend and got so drunk I could not stand up. Or talk coherently, come to that. She must have seen something 'special' in me :o
 
Advice from me is really dont go some place where you dont even talk to the person who youve taken out ! Cinema is bad for this. Do something in the afternoon and go out for something to eat maybe on the night. That way you have broken the ice during the day, got to know each other and then the meal is just a nice way to finish it off. :)
 
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