Women!!

I did say that, well I said...

"if i recall, you ended it with me - so not that it is any of your business, but nothing happened anyway - just had a good night with the lads, was fun."

to her

"omg - regardless of whether I ended it, I wouldn't expect you to be with some other girl so quick, if I did that I wouldn't hear the end of it..."

Wow, she is a bit out of order. Have you explained that you weren't 'with' her. And not only that, think to yourself deep down, how would you feel if she got with somebody at the same time (not that it is tied to your current situation, as you've said, the lass threw herself onto you)
 
You did the right thing goin out, and this is what facebook can do to you sometimes. Either block her or fiddle with the privacy settings etc
 
Its nice to think that even if a relationship breaks down the other person is feeling a little sad, whether it be you finished it or they did. I imagine if you saw her sitting on a mans lap a few nights after you would feel a little sad too.
But... as the others have said, remove her from friends that way she wont have to see you be manhandled by drunken ladies :D
(I would have felt jealous too, if my ex put pics up on facebook a few nights after we broke up)

I should add some context here...

I found messages from her and her ex where she said, and I quote "yea Dan is lovely, but he is not you" not long before we split - so the chances are he may well be back in the scene, and even if not - I think that message and the rest of what she said was far worse...

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Said picture... yes I am the Master Chief... that is how I roll - the picture shows just how sloshed the girl was as well... bless!
 
Uhh its pretty obvious to me. You told her you loved her she unfortunately didnt love you so it leads to the end of the relationship. She then finds pretty much straightaway a photo of you in a compromising position with another female.

How is she not to think - "if this is how he acts then he couldnt have felt that much for me if he is with someone else in a matter of hours"

I would imagine she felt betrayed because you professed you loved her but your actions have shown her that no really you didnt. Or do you get all cosy and intimate with any and all women who happen to be willing?

:)

Sorry but having a Woman on your knee is nothing, I've had girls on my knee while my girlfriend has been there!
 
I should add some context here...

I found messages from her and her ex where she said, and I quote "yea Dan is lovely, but he is not you" not long before we split - so the chances are he may well be back in the scene, and even if not - I think that message and the rest of what she said was far worse...

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Said picture... yes I am the Master Chief... that is how I roll - the picture shows just how sloshed the girl was as well... bless!

Indeed, Looks like I edited whilst you quoted haha... My post was meant to say, Whilst I feel her pain of being jealous (id feel the same) she hasnt got a leg to stand on if she finished the relationship
 
girl doesn't looked sloshed to me but instead comfortable as though you've been together a while. her hand couldn't be any closer to your privates.

edit: am i the only one who doesn't like it when girls sit on random guys laps?
 
Just delete her, shes obviously jealous, if she doesnt love you then whats the issue ? She sounds like a user tbh
 
Uhh its pretty obvious to me. You told her you loved her she unfortunately didnt love you so it leads to the end of the relationship. She then finds pretty much straightaway a photo of you in a compromising position with another female.

How is she not to think - "if this is how he acts then he couldnt have felt that much for me if he is with someone else in a matter of hours"

I would imagine she felt betrayed because you professed you loved her but your actions have shown her that no really you didnt. Or do you get all cosy and intimate with any and all women who happen to be willing?

:)

This man understands women!!!!!

Show us the way!!! Lol
 
Btw, Girl in that picture is well cute, If you arent attempting to Woo said Strumpet, I recommend you do! :p

lol - no, I am not looking for a relationship at the moment - I do need to move on first; maybe it;s because I know what was going through my head at the time, which was nothing to do with said lady on lap - I was just ****ing about with my mates (dressed as 118 118 guys) and playing ring of fire trying not to get depressed that my (ex)gf doesn't love me.

The girl on my lap was nothing, didn't even trigger a reaction.
 
Uhh its pretty obvious to me. You told her you loved her she unfortunately didnt love you so it leads to the end of the relationship. She then finds pretty much straightaway a photo of you in a compromising position with another female.

How is she not to think - "if this is how he acts then he couldnt have felt that much for me if he is with someone else in a matter of hours"

I would imagine she felt betrayed because you professed you loved her but your actions have shown her that no really you didnt. Or do you get all cosy and intimate with any and all women who happen to be willing?

:)

I said the L word to her in July, she never responded - queue awkward silence - she said she didn't - we even went on Holiday to Turkey in Sept and everything was fine - I treated her very well and that may be how she looks at it, but I know in my head - there was nothing there with the lap lady, it was purely innocent - I did explain that to her, but of course that is not what she believes - she basically told me to stay the night to which I declined because that is not what I was after or thinking about. If I had done anything then I would agree with your point, but in this case, you are not fully correct.
 
I should add some context here...

I found messages from her and her ex where she said, and I quote "yea Dan is lovely, but he is not you" not long before we split - so the chances are he may well be back in the scene, and even if not - I think that message and the rest of what she said was far worse...

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Said picture... yes I am the Master Chief... that is how I roll - the picture shows just how sloshed the girl was as well... bless!

She looks nice, take her out :)

Delete your ex, make your profile private. Make a new album, with picture(s) of girl on your lap, in bed with you, etc put them in album, make album public. Sorted.

Ex's are exes for a reason, why should you stay single just because she dumped you.......she didnt love you anyway ? So you werent even in a relationship if you think about it, just friendship.

If she had loved you my reply would be a lot different.
 
Whatever you do don't delete her.

Rise above it, its always easier to stay friends.. it removes some very awkward situations.

Just let her know the facts.. you were out with mates.. nothing happened and then pics were put up which look bad.. well to her anyway..
 
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