With regards to the car, I dislike the neons an awful lot. However remember this is the OP's first car. Remember when you had your first car? I'm sure some of us made mods that weren't enitrely in good taste. It is all about some individuality and I think that if I was constrained to something under the mobility scheme, which needed to fit a wheelchair as in this case, then I'd do something a bit different to my car. OP doesn't have the choice of buying an old but interesting car as his first so is seeking to trick out what is a pretty boring MPV to be a bit different. Not to my taste as I said, but enjoy it.