Morning Arguments :| (girl related)

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ARGGGGGGG

Right, tell me Im not being unresonable?

Im out getting the car ready to go, keys in the ignition getting the car warm, scraping the ice off the windscreen.

(me and the GF live together btw)

Girlfriend comes outside and shouts that she 'hasent got her keys and so cant lock the door', I shout back that 'cant she find then, arnt they on the kitchen table?'.

She finds them, gets in the car and we set off to work.

She then tells me that she wont have me talking to her like that, and she isnt a child so I shouldnt treat her like one.

We then start shouting at each other, you know the usual back and forth of a heated argument. We get close to work (we work in the same business estate) and I say I cant take the arguing anymore, so pull over the car at the side of the road about 100m from her work and tell her she has to walk the rest of the way.

She starts telling me that Im being childish and that she isnt going to walk.

I then drive a little bit further obviously in a little bit of a rage and tell her that if she stays in the car I am probably going to crash out of sheer anger, and she tells me she hopes that I do crash and that I die, so I pull over the car again and tell her she has to get out, which after a minute or so she reluctantly does.

Now I dont think Im unresonable for expecting her to have her **** together in the morning? I give her a lift to work everyday (she doesent drive) and she has to be at work dead on time or abit early, as she has to clock in, but my work is more leinient.

I also dont think that I was treating her like a child for shouting out where I think her keys were (we were a little way apart form each other) but she seems to think that I was talking down to her? :S

We have been together for almost 2 years and I can honestly say its not been the smoothest relationship ever, Id go into more detail but you dont want a wall of text this early, right now Im trying to work my finanaces out to see if its feasible to live on my own because Im honestly not sure how much of this I can take.

She says that Im living in my own little dream world, but I have spoken to females at work about the issue, and they seem to think Im being resonable.

Im not really sure what my question is, just needed to vent really! Anyone else care to share?
 
She's just having a womanly **** fit. I get them from time to time but just leave it until the end of the day or whatever and then talk to her. Best is venting, not to her as that just doesn't help and once you care less it's much easier to make up.

She is being a douche though, but all women have this trait
 
You're both childish. If you can't take the argument just shut your mouth and ignore her. To pull over and ask her to walk the last remaining distance is just pathetic.

She sounds like right a muppet though. Just be quiet, no point arguing with people like that, all while you sort out your finances in quiet so you can make a clean break without her soon enough.
 
I agree she should have her stuff together in the morning and I'm surprised to hear that she suggested you talked to her like she was a child simply because you asked her to go and get her keys. You telling her to get out the car and walk however is pretty unreasonable regardless of the situation - unless she was physically hitting you! Sounds like you need to sit down when you've both stopped raging about this and decide what you both want out of this.
 
If you have major arguments over stuff that insignificant then break up, imagine what you'd do is something serious actually came up. I really don't see how that situation could possibly turn into a full on shouting match and hissy fit, your supposed to be adults not 4 year olds on the play ground!
 
You did nothing wrong, she was in a foul mood and couldnt handle that you knew where the keys were and she didnt, so took it out on you. I agree you shouldnt of been as dramatic as saying "oh if you dont get out ill crash out of anger" it was damn keys! lol

Two years is a long time to throw away and anyone who doesnt have arguments after two years dont have emotions in my opinion :) Let her cool off, you cool off and you will probably get a text message before dinnertime apologising. If she does... my advice (you dont have to take it) is apologise for making her walk and have a nice evening together putting it in the past.
 
In hindsight I wish I had the stomach to just sit and say nothing while she shouts but in the heat of it its difficult not to get involved :/

Admitidly it was slightly pathetic to pull over the car and tell her to get out, but its quite hard to drive when someone is screaming at you and I really did feel like if she stayed in the car I would have hit something.
 
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Hey!
I consider myself a rather sane person, but when a woman starts shouting nonsense in can turn any man into a rage.
 
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