OK i have another account here, just in case im spotted out by mutual friends heh. Ok a lil back story, i've not been in a relationship in a LONG time, so been out of the dating scene.
i've been hanging out with a girl i really like for a while. We met mmm a while ago kinda introduced i guess kinda blind date by her cousin. Anyways we lost contact for a while but then got back in touch 6-7 months later.
Since then we've been talking on the phone maybe 2 usually 3 times a week for about an hour each time. she works 6 days so with only 1 day off a week, we prob meet up 2 sometimes 3 times a month?
I asked her out back in sept after meeting her again a few times, but she said she'd like to take it slow, but she did say she likes me, and she knows i like her. I seem to always do the wrong thing, like one time on the phone she compliments me and i didnt say anything back once... i was shocked she complimented me tbh but i think i made it up :S
Anyways as you can see im totally rusty and i want to ask her out now. I kinda didnt wanna do it before xmas, as it might be too much pressure. Should i now wait until after new years eve?
So whats the best course of action?!?
Writing a nice love letter, telling her what she means to me and how i feel about her, or taking her to one side while out and about and just doing the above (if i dont brain freeze). Or i was thinking maybe a date after NYE like a show in london then asking her out afterwards... or is that too corny?
Help advice, past experiences much appreciated...
i've been hanging out with a girl i really like for a while. We met mmm a while ago kinda introduced i guess kinda blind date by her cousin. Anyways we lost contact for a while but then got back in touch 6-7 months later.
Since then we've been talking on the phone maybe 2 usually 3 times a week for about an hour each time. she works 6 days so with only 1 day off a week, we prob meet up 2 sometimes 3 times a month?
I asked her out back in sept after meeting her again a few times, but she said she'd like to take it slow, but she did say she likes me, and she knows i like her. I seem to always do the wrong thing, like one time on the phone she compliments me and i didnt say anything back once... i was shocked she complimented me tbh but i think i made it up :S
Anyways as you can see im totally rusty and i want to ask her out now. I kinda didnt wanna do it before xmas, as it might be too much pressure. Should i now wait until after new years eve?
So whats the best course of action?!?
Writing a nice love letter, telling her what she means to me and how i feel about her, or taking her to one side while out and about and just doing the above (if i dont brain freeze). Or i was thinking maybe a date after NYE like a show in london then asking her out afterwards... or is that too corny?
Help advice, past experiences much appreciated...
