First ever fight

theNude · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:20

Just thought I would get this off my chest, I was leaving a bar last night with my girlfriend, we had a tiff so she was walking about 10 metres in front of me and some guy stops her and asks for money, she told him she had none and he then continued to pester her and got aggressive, she told him to go away in no uncertain terms at which point he threw his hot coffee onto her, she gave him a whack at which point he raised his arm too, this was when i turned the corner and saw there was a scuffle between them, I cant really remember much else other than standing over him punching him in the face and being pulled off by some other guys.

I am not an aggressive person and I am trying to reflect whether this was justified or not.

Dude.

MooMoo444 · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:21

If some drunk dude was trying to lay in to your missus, then I dont see why it would be 'unjustified'.

The IPB · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:22

It's more of a I beat up a drunk dude, than first fight ever.

Sp00n · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:22

100% justified, I hope you taught him something.

Why do letchy men think they can just pester women?

Doonhamer · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:22

Well if he is having to be pulled off the guy he may have went to far. Cant say I wouldnt have done the same though.

twist3d0n3 · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:22

i hope you had a keyboard with you for good measure

Semple · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:24

his fault

theNude · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:24

He wasn't drunk, I admit I was a bit drunk, which probably saved him from a bigger kicking due to my lack of co-ordination. but he put hot coffee onto her and looked like he may try and lash out at which point I wanted to make sure he couldn't. I just feel like a thug and try and think how I could have resolved it without violence but I am not sure there was a way

Sp00n · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:25

theDude said:
I just feel like a thug and try and think how I could have resolved it without violence but I am not sure there was a way

He raised his arm, I think the point at which it could have been resolved without violence had passed.

AJK · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:32

theDude said:
... he threw his hot coffee onto her... I cant really remember much else other than standing over him punching him in the face...

Morally, no problem at all IMO. Don't ask the police though.

Combat squirrel · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:35

Hows your mrs ? she ok ? I assume it solved the tiff and you are awesome in her books again ?

twist3d0n3 · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:36

Combat squirrel said:
Hows your mrs ? she ok ? I assume it solved the tiff and you are awesome in her books again ?

someone got a bonk for his use of testosterone i reckon

Cosimo · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:38

twist3d0n3 said:
i hope you had a keyboard with you for good measure

He’d have hit him with that if he’d had one with him.

trigger-happy · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:41

You did well OP. Did everything workout OK with your gf?

DM · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:42

Cant see the problem here, you gave an idiot a dig that was driving your mrs mad, good job.

theNude · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:44

I did gain some brownie points for being her knight in shining armour, however she is still angry with my as I was dancing with another girl (only for a laugh, she was not attractive in the slightest)

~>Dg<~ · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:44

looks at his sig

clankk · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:44

Hope u both fine, u did what u had to do. Best to resolve tiff's at home, regardless. Could have been worse.

Edrof · 10 Jan 2011 at 12:45

He started it. You kicked his ass. He deserved what he got.

Think about what he might have done to your girl if nobody had been around. Still feel bad?