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wannabedamned

wannabedamned

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I used to be someone who lived life, Went out all the time, Loved to try new things. But lately I feel like I'm just going through the motions:

1: Get up
2: Go to work
3: Watch TV
4: Go to Bed

And then Rinse and repeat 5 days a week.

This is to the point last night i was invited out to a party, BY A GIRL. And i turned her down for a night infront of the TV on the sofa alone. Few hours afterwards, while texting said girl. I realised I was getting too comfortable in my routine of just doing the above 4 things. To top it off, I'm also in trouble as the girl went into town and my Boss was DJing at the Pub, and expected me there to take over his session so he could go have a smoke\drink(I'd told him I was going out, and then changed my mind) So in other words, I passed going out to a party with a girl, going into town and Djing in front a crowd on a friday night. For a stay in watching crap television. :o

Basically, I've had a wake up call today. Which is always nice. I'm not happy in my routine, and I need to start making changes inorder to enjoy myself.

I just wondered if anyone was\is stuck in the same rut I was?
 
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4T5 said:
Have you told your Rents you're a Gayer ???
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Hold up, maybe the girl had 'stereo decks' for a stomach and a double chin. We need description of the girl first to critically evaluate this. Evidence, pics are necessary OP.
 
To be fair most the gay guys I know have a very active social life! I'm turning Asexual if anything :p

As for the girl in question, I cant post up pics, But she's not fat. She's petite, Cute and could easily be thrown around a room(In a good way) But she also comes with a cup full of crazy thrown in.
 
ok, please draw pic of said girl in paint so we can gauge the feature list. So far we are finding it hard to understand why you turned her down!
 
Why is it a rut? Is it a rut because you don't enjoy it... or is a rut because society tells you that you shouldn't enjoy it?
 
wannabedamned said:
To be fair most the gay guys I know have a very active social life! I'm turning Asexual if anything :p
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Definitely a Gayer then! :p

wannabedamned said:
As for the girl in question, I cant post up pics, But she's not fat. She's petite, Cute and could easily be thrown around a room(In a good way) But she also comes with a cup full of crazy thrown in.
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All girls come with a fair amount of crazy thrown in, it's all part of the challenge.
 
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Been there done it and got the T-shirt but because of all the living beyond my means, I have to take a sabbatical from it all to get back on the straight and narrow.
So just existing at the moment and looking to the future.
 
wannabedamned said:
I used to be someone who lived life, Went out all the time, Loved to try new things. But lately I feel like I'm just going through the motions:

1: Get up
2: Go to work
3: Watch TV
4: Go to Bed

And then Rinse and repeat 5 days a week.

This is to the point last night i was invited out to a party, BY A GIRL. And i turned her down for a night infront of the TV on the sofa alone. Few hours afterwards, while texting said girl. I realised I was getting too comfortable in my routine of just doing the above 4 things. To top it off, I'm also in trouble as the girl went into town and my Boss was DJing at the Pub, and expected me there to take over his session so he could go have a smoke\drink(I'd told him I was going out, and then changed my mind) So in other words, I passed going out to a party with a girl, going into town and Djing in front a crowd on a friday night. For a stay in watching crap television. :o

Basically, I've had a wake up call today. Which is always nice. I'm not happy in my routine, and I need to start making changes inorder to enjoy myself.

I just wondered if anyone was\is stuck in the same rut I was?
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Read the book "Yes Man" by Danny Wallace.
 
That graffitti is just a rip off of Trainspotting, which I'm sure won't be the first time someone has had those thoughts.

If you don't want to do something then don't do it. But analyse why it is you don't want to do it.

It took me to about 30 to realise that what I thought I needed to do in order to be happy was not what actualy would make me happy.

Most of the time we just follow fashion/received wisdom/convention and it's the moments of clarity when we realise we don't want it any more.. we have to work out what we really want.
 
Pav89 said:
ok, please draw pic of said girl in paint so we can gauge the feature list. So far we are finding it hard to understand why you turned her down!
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:D

Step 1 in living life, draw pictures of girls you know in MSpaint when requested


^ I think i had one of those moments of clarity today\last night.
 
Dr.EM said:
Just an exister here I'm afraid. Don't really enjoy any aspect of life much any more.
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Same here, which makes motivating myself to find a job and move out incredibly hard.

Actually, I still do enjoy some aspects of life, just not enough to out-way the negatives required for me to be able to do said aspects.
 
The Halk said:
That graffitti is just a rip off of Trainspotting, which I'm sure won't be the first time someone has had those thoughts.

If you don't want to do something then don't do it. But analyse why it is you don't want to do it.

It took me to about 30 to realise that what I thought I needed to do in order to be happy was not what actualy would make me happy.

Most of the time we just follow fashion/received wisdom/convention and it's the moments of clarity when we realise we don't want it any more.. we have to work out what we really want.
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Sadly, some people never realise it or work it out.
 
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