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ive met some awesome people there, but its a bit underwhelming tbh. im only on first year HND computing and living at home, thats most likely why....
Shocker that I mention my degree/path to it in threads related to education/life advice threads!
University is the best thing thats happened to me. Before uni I was overweight, shy, anti social, played counter strike all the time.
Is University life really that good as people make it out to be.
Have to agree that it is one of the best times so far. Loved the whole aspect of moving away from home and meeting a whole new set of people.
Your social life at uni is still part of the uni experience.
Living at home and not enjoying it is either your fault for not moving away or just you being unfortunate to not be able to for financial reasons.
You need to remember as well, accommodation prices and drink prices vary up and down the country. I had friends who went to Newcastle/Leeds that could go out and spend as little as £20 and be absolutely wasted and likewise friends in Portsmouth who could also do the same. An equivalent night for me would have cost £30 - £40. How do I know? Because I visited them at their uni's as well and went out with their social groups too.
University is what you make it, all the ingredients are there for you to make the most of it , you shouldn't have to rely on others to make it fun for you.
The point that it isn't for anyone is as far as my opinion goes only valid in relation to the further studying itself. Even the most sheltered and shy people can come out of their shells at uni, it just takes initiative.
Drink, living in a kip, being stoned all the time and hanging about with louts didn't have much of an appeal to me so I don't feel I missed out on anything.
I'm living with people who have a social life that doesn't just involve drinking.
Once again, you're doing it wrong. Uni isn't for you.