Would you take the chance to cheat or not?

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There you go, there us the chance to cheat. There is no guarantee but there is a good chance you will get away scot free. Would you do it? Would conscience interfere at all or would you not give a toss? cheat away no one knows?

I suppose I'm asking been out for mates b'day. Prettty trashed but stayed out for him. Got a fiancae but chatted with the birdsto fit in but I find it waste of time not being single. Could have cheated bur chose not to.

Not even sure what I'm asking. Suppose I'm asking do you play the dog to fit in? Do you want to be the crowd regardless? Or do you have a backbone?
 
nah, if crapping on somebody by cheating means fitting in, then tbh, i wouldn't want to fit in.
 
Drink is always the excuse. A one night stand isn't worth the guilt which would consume you and it isn't fair on the one you love.
 
I don't think it's right to commit to something with someone then **** them over, it's more the lies. If you want to be with anyone you want whenever you want, as the situation allows then stay single and never enter a committed relationship.


My answer from what I translated anyway.
 
Whats the point in sex if your not in love with your partner? Yes I have only slept with 2 women at 27 years old, and I was in love with both of them, and proud of it!
 
This one is often handy

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Whats the point in sex if your not in love with your partner? Yes I have only slept with 2 women at 27 years old, and I was in love with both of them, and proud of it!

Its better than going solo tbh....


OK while its different if you're in love with the other person it doesn't mean its pointless if its with someone you don't love - forgetting the sentimental nonsense its something that gives you a buzz (without resorting to illegal substances) and is a heck of a lot of fun.
Perhpas you should give it a go before passing judgment, whilst the odd night out has resulted in a slightly dubious member of the female species ending up in my bedroom overall I'd say that hooking up with a random girl at a festival or on holiday can be an absolutely awesome experience even though you know you'll likely never stay in touch/see them again.

As for the OP - if you've got a fiance then of course you shouldn't cheat - anything below that level of commitment then I guess it depends on a few things.
 
Whats the point in sex if your not in love with your partner?

Love and sex are probably linked (from a 'nature' POV) to ensure that children get a better upbringing, i.e. it keeps couples together after conception. But sex in itself can be gratifying and if you take precautions then I don't see it being an issue whether you are in love with them or not.

Going back to the OP, chatting to girls to 'fit in' is one thing, cheating on a partner something else entirely. I remember a few years back when I was engaged, out with a friend in a quiet pub, two girls approached us to play table football or something. Got chatting, arranged to meet later in the evening as a group (my mate was single at the time, so I was 'fitting in' as it were), nothing ever came of it. But I do remember feeling a little guilty about it in the sense that I wouldn't have wanted my fiancee to find out, even though I hadn't done anything wrong.
 
Its better than going solo tbh....


OK while its different if you're in love with the other person it doesn't mean its pointless if its with someone you don't love - forgetting the sentimental nonsense its something that gives you a buzz (without resorting to illegal substances) and is a heck of a lot of fun.
Perhpas you should give it a go before passing judgment, whilst the odd night out has resulted in a slightly dubious member of the female species ending up in my bedroom overall I'd say that hooking up with a random girl at a festival or on holiday can be an absolutely awesome experience even though you know you'll likely never stay in touch/see them again.

As for the OP - if you've got a fiance then of course you shouldn't cheat - anything below that level of commitment then I guess it depends on a few things.

I'm not mocking people that do, or don't mean to mock them. I just couldn't do it, but obviously that's just me.
 
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