Would you take the chance to cheat or not?

Couldnt do it - if you love somebody the thought of the damage you'd do to her if she ever found out should easily be enough to make you not even think about it.

If it doesn't, then why are you with her?
 
I couldn't do it, I would feel terrible if my girlfriend ever cheated on me and wouldn't want to inflict that on anyone, I actually said when we first got together that if it ever came to the point where either of us wanted to cheat that we should break up first,
 
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spoke tonight with a friend who has the oppertunity to 'cheat' but wouldn't, not that he doesn't enjoy the flirtation/option too.

Ego boosting ones' self will only lead to a messy end, said one clever person.
 
if she's hot ..... do it! you're only here once, stick it in any hot girl you can and make it count!!! and if you get caught, just show a pic of the girl in question to the girl you've cheated on and she WILL understand cos deep down, all girls are a bit bi
 
cm1179 said:
if she's hot ..... do it! you're only here once, stick it in any hot girl you can and make it count!!! and if you get caught, just show a pic of the girl in question to the girl you've cheated on and she WILL understand cos deep down, all girls are a bit bi
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So yeah, don't do this.
 
I wouldn't if I was in any level of a relationship, it's just not fair to the other person and realistically not worth it in any decent relationship( especially one like yours.)
 
If you are really inlove, you won't. period.
Was in a 2 year relationship with my ex. Was in the army 2 years and then came to the UK to study. You can imagine the freedom and sex overwhelmed me. I wasn't inlove with my ex, I cheated, but called her right away and told her.
I'm in a relationship with one of my best friends, I believe I'm inlove with her. I can't cheat on her, even if she's back home. I don't get excited by other women.
 
Never have, never will. I'm better than that.

Actually split up with a girl coz I was thinking about and thought she deserved better so it was unfair of me to waste her time like that. She was a lovely girl and 10 years later I regret it but she wasn't right for me at the time and I couldn't appreciate her.
My mates always tell me I'm too picky. Love to lose the morals and standards but I can't. :(
 
No1newts said:
There you go, there us the chance to cheat. There is no guarantee but there is a good chance you will get away scot free. Would you do it? Would conscience interfere at all or would you not give a toss? cheat away no one knows?

I suppose I'm asking been out for mates b'day. Prettty trashed but stayed out for him. Got a fiancae but chatted with the birdsto fit in but I find it waste of time not being single. Could have cheated bur chose not to.

Not even sure what I'm asking. Suppose I'm asking do you play the dog to fit in? Do you want to be the crowd regardless? Or do you have a backbone?
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After reading your post I assume you mean cheating specifically on your partner rather than generally.

In which case the answer is absolutely not. Even if there was a guarantee that my wife would never find out, I would know and that in itself would change the dynamic of our relationship.

I simply could not hurt someone like that.

As for "fitting in", I have never really been one to bow to peer pressure anyway. I do what I do on my own volition and ultimately take responsibility for it.
 
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