Need advice getting kicked out
- Thread starter Nate Silvers
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I like the way I#m called a troll but ppl like u r the real trolls oldcoals, if you don't have something helpful to say don't.
it's pretty hard with no info like money, relatives, friends etc.
To be fair, the majority of the questions are nothing more than nosiness. He asked a question "what can I do got no friends to stay with" why he is being kicked out and why he has no friends to stay with is irrelevant.
I cant answer for everyone, but the reason is relevant to my answer because depending on the reason the situation may well be salvageable to the point where she doesnt kick him out, thereby providing the solution to his predicament.
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Serious question.
Why is she kicking you out?
How old are you?
Do you have a job?
Can you afford moving out? Even living on a shoe string?
Why do you have no friends that you can crash for a couple of weeks?
and finally.
What is it that is so far an apology can't fix, you are her son.
Sheer curiosity. I dont think its a crime to want to know the backstory.
I used to work for an organisation called The Start Project, which specialised in helping local people find temporary accomadation if they became homeless. The project shut down some time ago, but maybe you could find something like that in your own area?
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Seriously? You don't know why the reason is relevent? The reason shapes the path he can take.
If he is being kicked out because he never does his washing then he needs to go back in and talk things over with his Mum, who will then change her mind.
If he's being kicked out because at 4am last night, armed police did the 5th drug raid on his bedroom in as many months, then obviously, he wont be going back.
what serious questions ? most people are just being nosey , why does knowing why he has been kicked out matter ? it might matter if it was a landlord kicking him out but not if its his mother.
all people need to know is that hes about to be homeless and (i guess) has little money.
Common sense says that if you have to leave then you need to find somewhere else to live. If you think common sense is trolling then so be it.
Fox is spot on, the reason you need to leave influences the advice that can be given.
But not all of us.
If I dont understand the reasons why he is being kicked out, then I cant advise him in a manner which might enable him to remain where he is.
If he is utterly resigned to being kicked out and has decided that it is 100% inevitable and cannot be prevented, then I also cant give him any options beyond some sort of official local charity/council run shelter for the homeless.
I think anyone with an ounce of real desire to help him in his situation though would want to know the reasons because it might help him not be kicked out at all. After all, not being kicked out at all is surely a much better route than merely seeking somewhere to stay.
Yep I agree and you and maybe one or two others have expressed a genuine desire to know the backstory for the reasons you stated, which is fair enough but others have mocked him. I'm not surprised the op is unwilling to divulge any information.
He's not posting juicy gossip is he though? You assume that he has juicy gossip to post. Ultimately, it's his ****ing business and it's relevance to you to provide information to him in regards with what to do when made homeless is nil. Aside from his location, to narrow down the information to be more beneficial to him, wanting to know why he is being kicked out or why there is no-one he can stay with is nothing more than nosiness.
I'm sure had he been willing to divulge such information it would have been made available in his original post.
I'm sure had he been willing to divulge such information it would have been made available in his original post.
not at all. it is important information.
We've had similar posts in the past where a simple apology would have meant they wouldn't of been kicked out.
It is also very odd to not have friends, is he just to embarrassed to ask, has he just move to another part of the country?
Has he got funds for a night or two as sorting things out in a couple of hours is very hard.