Anyone had an affair ?

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Bit of a random thread but thought i'd ask.
Just been out with Moses the dog in the local park and noticed what I thought were a couple who could have been having an affair.
Personally I couldn't do it, Love my wife and family too much and have no reason to do it.
I went to school with a lad, who was one of my best friends at the time, his dad was your average dad, cool, was into the doors and stone roses and was in a band, married 15+ years, only to find out when I met the old friend one new years eve 4 years ago that his dad had been having an affair for 10 years !!
So, had one, considered it ?
 
Considered it when me and my girlfriend we're having a rough patch but I never did, I love her too much and couldn't hurt her like that
 
Never considered it, though not really been tested either to be fair. I'd like to think I love my missus far too much, despite the fact she grinds my gears sometimes. If I really wanted someone else I don't think an affair is an honourable way to go about it.
 
No, I've always just ended my current relationship if I've met someone else.

Couldn't imagine any circumstance that would make me leave my wife though.
 
No, thought about it a couple of times but I love my other half and kids to much to ruin our family.
 
Hmmm I slept with my now ex a week or so before I broke up with my then girlfriend (if that makes sense). Felt pretty horrible about it, although that being said I am now sleeping with one of my ex's good friends :p.

Also I'm 23 and not exactly looking to settle down.
 
KaHn said:
I'm single \o/ best way.

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My father had an affair with a 22 year old woman when he was 45. The worst part is that I remember having a crush on her when my dad brought her home and introduced her as a work colleague when I was about 12. My mother also caught him with prostitues on more than one occasion.

Incredibly they are still together, though were apart for several years following the affair.

I think it is likely that having had first hand experience of the damaging effects of adultery and having seen the impact it had on my mother as well as the impact on my younger brother and myself, is what has given me such strict morals regarding relationships. To this day i genuinely feel like vomiting at the thought of a partner cheating on me or indeed me cheating on a partner myself. It actually physically repulses me.
 
GordyR I could not agree with you more, the thought of being cheated on makes me physically sick and so angry. I love my girlfriend too much to ever do something like that.
 
Never cheated and never will - cheating on someone is moral cowardice. If you are unhappy with the relationship either discuss issues or end it.
 
I was unfaithful to girlfriends when younger, got it out of my system and had to do a bit of growing up, learning to empathise. Now married, no desire to screw that up.
 
GordyR said:
My father had an affair with a 22 year old woman when he was 45. The worst part is that I remember having a crush on her when my dad brought her home and introduced her as a work colleague when I was about 12. My mother also caught him with prostitues on more than one occasion.

Incredibly they are still together, though were apart for several years following the affair.

I think it is likely that having had first hand experience of the damaging effects of adultery and having seen the impact it had on my mother as well as the impact on my younger brother and myself, is what has given me such strict morals regarding relationships. To this day i genuinely feel like vomiting at the thought of a partner cheating on me or indeed me cheating on a partner myself. It actually physically repulses me.
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Sounds like your father wasn't getting any, no sex = cheating ?
 
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