Anyone had an affair ?

Never have I ever cheated, and never could I ever bring myself to do it, it's just pathetic and so cowardly.

I do have reason to believe I have been cheated on myself though, although I don't have solid evidence to prove it, it still hurts :/
 
i hate this point that everyone references to "what she/he doesn't know wont hurt her", Admittidly i have cheated on my ex's in the past, but once you realise the pain and hurt caused them, you become wiser. IF my fiance ever did cheat on me or i found out, i would not hesitate to finish it i would also try and get rights for the child, Sounds Harsh but sorry her responsibilities/priorities are not in the right place, not only the damage to the baby when she grows up and asks why mummy and daddy are not together.
 
GordyR said:
Funnily enough she has had a previous sexual encounter with another woman. Not while with me of course. Experimentally... And decided it wasn't for her.

In fact she said she was grossed out by it afterwards and instantly regretted it.
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Sucks doesnt it, I asked my gf if we could have a threesome at some point with another girl, she said no because the idea of another girl simply just doesnt do it for her! GF whoz happy for one of her (girl) friends to join in = jackpot :D
 
A2Z said:
Sucks doesnt it, I asked my gf if we could have a threesome at some point with another girl, she said no because the idea of another girl simply just doesnt do it for her! GF whoz happy for one of her (girl) friends to join in = jackpot :D
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I was offered a threesome by two sisters once! :eek: I declined for reasons I wont go into here... But I mentioned it in another thread. In essence the girl was completely insane. As most likely, was her sister.
 
GordyR said:
In essence the girl was completely insane. As most likely, was her sister.
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Sounds like a fun night! :cool:

Ill try go one better :D

When in Amsterdam last year with the GF, she was telling me she was happy for me to go with a worker in the Red Light District, as she was just as much curious as me to know what its like to be with someone you're paying only for sex. Only conditions were that she would have to be there as well, and I would only allowed to go to 3rd base (receiving). We did ask and it would have been 100 Euros still...but in the end I declined :p No need to pay for something I was gonna get anyway! Still not sure if she was being serious..or just testing me hmmmm :o
 
A2Z said:
Sounds like a fun night! :cool:

Ill try go one better :D

When in Amsterdam last year with the GF, she was telling me she was happy for me to go with a worker in the Red Light District, as she was just as much curious as me to know what its like to be with someone you're paying only for sex. Only conditions were that she would have to be there as well, and I would only allowed to go to 3rd base (receiving). We did ask and it would have been 100 Euros still...but in the end I declined :p No need to pay for something I was gonna get anyway! Still not sure if she was being serious..or just testing me hmmmm :o
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I've cheated before, several times.

The way I see it, I wasn't with the right person if my subconscious mind "let" me cheat. I'm not trying to justify it, it was morally wrong, and I felt bad about it, but perhaps not as bad as I should have done.

The woman I'm with now, I just couldn't cheat on, ever. We have the same kind of relationship that Gordy describes - we're inseperable, even spend all the time we're not together texting each other :p I know for a fact that cheating absolutely disgusts her, so I know she wouldn't either. Even looking at other women, and talking to and flirting with, I can't even think about cheating on her.

:)
 
-westy- said:
I've cheated before, several times.

The way I see it, I wasn't with the right person if my subconscious mind "let" me cheat. I'm not trying to justify it, it was morally wrong, and I felt bad about it, but perhaps not as bad as I should have done.

The woman I'm with now, I just couldn't cheat on, ever. We have the same kind of relationship that Gordy describes - we're inseperable, even spend all the time we're not together texting each other :p I know for a fact that cheating absolutely disgusts her, so I know she wouldn't either. Even looking at other women, and talking to and flirting with, I can't even think about cheating on her.

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So just to play Devils Advocate. Seeing as cheating disgusts her, have you told her that you have cheated on multiple people in the past?
 
fidget said:
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You can find what I look like on the rogues gallery, I'm single out of choice don't worry about that.

KaHn
 
Detroit_Waves said:
So just to play Devils Advocate. Seeing as cheating disgusts her, have you told her that you have cheated on multiple people in the past?
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Yep, I told her straight out.

She was honest about it, it does bother her, but from her point of view (and mine), I'm clearly a different person now. When I cheated it wasn't a particularly good time in my life, and she believes what I say.

We're both of the thinking that if the other one cheated, that'd be it, no second chances, gone, despite how much we love each other, its not worth the mistrust and personal damage it can do to try to stay together.
 
Jeez, ive been trying to have an affair for ages.

Mainly just for some sex on the side.

The problem these days, is women are getting smarter, and can tell when you just want sex and not a proper relationship. Either that, or Im losing my game!
 
snapdragon said:
Erm...

yes seem to be absolutely crap at being faithful

was with the ex for 5 years before an old flame turned up ( she's married ) had a "thing" for roughly twelve months during which time I split up from my partner but her hubby remained unaware.

then started seeing an old school friend, as I was on my way to our first date was arranging to meet another woman later on in the week, uhmm'd and ahh'd over both for 6 weeks then they both found out and I was rightly dropped

Started afresh with someone else and within 2 months was seeing the old flame again, that got knocked on the head, then at xmas this year went out with work and shared a taxi home with a lass from the office, erm....

Have just stopped seeing the girl from work, still have my partner who I've been with for 8 months now


am I allowed to call myself a **** ?
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No, you're a *****.
 
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