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I can't believe you'd bother putting time into someone that makes you miserable :p

We all have our good days and our bad ones. Best thing is to just think of your life as some epic and significant journey with an awesome soundtrack, makes everything better:


You know good times gunna roll soon!
 
Nitefly said:
I can't believe you'd bother putting time into someone that makes you miserable :p

We all have our good days and our bad ones. Best thing is to just think of your life as some epic and significant journey with an awesome soundtrack, makes everything better:


You know good times gunna roll soon!
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Everything is perfect but this, just dont know what to do, loads of memorials etc coming up thats all gonna get to me..... Growing up is awful
 
Ok i'm happy again now (quick turnaround).....

She just called again and apologised for everything and I apologised also for overeacting (deleting her on fb / twitter / calling her a ****)

So yeh we're friends now..... nothing more...

Guess i'm a lot happier now. Life doesn't suck so much anymore...
 
Get rid and get awesome. You sound really unhappy and the relationship doesn't sound at all healthy. If she's just come out of a relationship then this is a red flag. If she's moody and won't talk to you this is a red flag. If you're posting on a computer forum about all of this, this too is a red flag. You haven't said anything positive at all about her, this is a red flag.

Should I go on?

Sever and get yourself sorted.

e : oh FFS, you're 19 years old? Jesus Christ, dump her and get on with your life. Relationships (and this doesn't sound like one btw) mean nothing at that age for many people. There'll be plenty more heartbreaks to go through before you find the right one.
 
Dmack said:
Ok i'm happy again now (quick turnaround).....

She just called again and apologised for everything and I apologised also for overeacting (deleting her on fb / twitter / calling her a ****)

So yeh we're friends now..... nothing more...

Guess i'm a lot happier now. Life doesn't suck so much anymore...
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Lucky you haha
 
[FnG]magnolia;18793966 said:
Get rid and get awesome. You sound really unhappy and the relationship doesn't sound at all healthy. If she's just come out of a relationship then this is a red flag. If she's moody and won't talk to you this is a red flag. If you're posting on a computer forum about all of this, this too is a red flag. You haven't said anything positive at all about her, this is a red flag.

Should I go on?

Sever and get yourself sorted.
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Fair play, I do like everything abou ther but this.....
How do i go about it, all her stuffs here, she relies on me for everything... if i let her move on it would kill me and i know she would move on from the ''feelings'' we share.. its a connumdrum? that i have never had to face
 
CoxyBoy123 said:
Fair play, I do like everything abou ther but this.....
How do i go about it,
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You have to decide if you want whatever it is you have between you (and it sounds terrible) to continue for a start.

all her stuffs here,
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Stuff is easy to move. Does she have anywhere to go? Is it or should it be your problem?

she relies on me for everything
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This level of dependency is not normally part of a healthy relationship. It doesn't improve her as a person and it limits you and the way you interact with her.

... if i let her move on it would kill me
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No it wouldn't. You'd be upset and ****** off for x amount of weeks or months but it wouldn't kill you.

and i know she would move on from the ''feelings'' we share..
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That's what breaking up is supposed to do.

its a connumdrum? that i have never had to face
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And this is why it seems harder. People break up and hook up all the time, that's how life works. Do NOT put yourself through crap to be with someone who isn't improving your life. You do not owe her anything, you're not responsible for her (God, she's not your sister is she? :D ) You are responsible for you.
 
[FnG]magnolia;18794092 said:
You have to decide if you want whatever it is you have between you (and it sounds terrible) to continue for a start.



Stuff is easy to move. Does she have anywhere to go? Is it or should it be your problem?



This level of dependency is not normally part of a healthy relationship. It doesn't improve her as a person and it limits you and the way you interact with her.



No it wouldn't. You'd be upset and ****** off for x amount of weeks or months but it wouldn't kill you.



That's what breaking up is supposed to do.



And this is why it seems harder. People break up and hook up all the time, that's how life works. Do NOT put yourself through crap to be with someone who isn't improving your life. You do not owe her anything, you're not responsible for her (God, she's not your sister is she? :D ) You are responsible for you.
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You sir are a legend, your advise i will try and take....

Somebody photoshop this man a medal?
 
[FnG]magnolia;18793707 said:
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Magnolia is that how you look like in real life ? lol:D:p
 
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