Poll: Is it ever okay to 'cheat'?

Is it OK to be involved in "cheating"? (Scenario inside)

  • 1. It's absolutely fine to sleep with her. The 'morality' has absolutely nothing to do with me.

    Votes: 26 8.1%

  • 2. What I'm doing is a little wrong, but it's not really my problem so it's okay to sleep with her.

    Votes: 79 24.6%

  • 3. I'll do anything that moves. Situation doesn't come into it.

    Votes: 21 6.5%

  • 4. I'm not totally to blame, but I wouldn't do it as I feel I'm facilitating an immoral act.

    Votes: 60 18.7%

  • 5. I wouldn't sleep with her. I'd be just as guilty as she is.

    Votes: 135 42.1%
  • Total voters
    321
Is it ok to cheat of course not, but in the op example it is not the single person cheating. It takes two to tango and It's down to the one in the relationship.

So number two.
 
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4.

From the experience I've had of being "that guy", cheating on people, and being cheated on, it just isn't worth it.

Find someone else to ****.

:Edit: I messed around with the poll options for a minute there as I reckon it should be in a different order (due to the clear difference in attitude of the choices), but as people have already decided their number etc I've left it as the original :p
 
There are also other factors...what happens if there are kids involved, would people still be so willing?
 
If my wife were to cheat on me, then I'd blame her - not the guy for it. She's the one married to me, not him. Now if she were to cheat with me with a hot friend of hers, then I'd be annoyed at both of them for not getting me involved.

It takes two to tango, I'd never cheat on my wife but if I did I'd expect me to take the blame completely as it'd be me destroying our relationship and any trust we had. The onus is always on the person in the relationship unless BOTH parties are in relationships - then both are equally to blame.

In short - feel horny for someone in a relationship ? So solo, deal with the urge and leave the family alone.. especially if they are a parent.
 
She's an adult, she can make her own decisions.

I have no idea what her relationship is like. Broken, failing, maybe he is abusive, condescending, maybe he refuses to satisfy her in the bedroom taking only what he needs for himself. Maybe she is with him for some convoluted reason despite there being no interest in each other in bed.

The flip side to "crushing some fella" is that you're making a woman feel wanted, sexy and powerful, something she clearly isn't getting elsewhere (else she wouldnt be asking).
 
DampCat said:
She's an adult, she can make her own decisions.

I have no idea what her relationship is like. Broken, failing, maybe he is abusive, condescending, maybe he refuses to satisfy her in the bedroom taking only what he needs for himself. Maybe she is with him for some convoluted reason despite there being no interest in each other in bed.

The flip side to "crushing some fella" is that you're making a woman feel wanted, sexy and powerful, something she clearly isn't getting elsewhere (else she wouldnt be asking).
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loads of people in perfectly happy marriages cheat becasuse they think they can get away with it so dont fool yourself into thinking its a bad marriage or she wouldnt be doing it...

bakes0310 said:
Punch to the face! If someone boned my wife, i would kill them.
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just spread word they abused a 15year old , get their life destroyed like they did yours :D

i would find out where they live and work which is very easy in the digital age and spread a few nonce rumours.

love to see the face of some people in this thread who would happily sleep with a married woman and blame her for it all as they turn up for work and find spomeone has plastered hes a nonse all over the doors/carpark
 
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Nix said:
Another point for discussion: does your position change regarding the seriousness of the relationship?

e.g.

Is it okay to 'cheat' if it's a fresh relationship? Does it make a difference if it's long-term, they're married or if children are involved?
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Yes it does change for me. Kids would definitely make me think twice.
Also it isn't clear whether we are talking a prolonged affair or a one-night stand, although I suppose the former has to start somewhere and you can't be sure where it will lead.
 
arknor said:
just spread word they abused a 15year old , get their life destroyed like they did yours :D
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So you've changed your tune now, realised you couldn't beat anyone up? So you have to spread rumours about th? Mature very very mature..........

KaHn
 
KaHn said:
So you've changed your tune now, realised you couldn't beat anyone up? So you have to spread rumours about th? Mature very very mature..........

KaHn
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whats wrong with a bit of good old fashioned revenge? would make them think twice about doing the same thing again and they would know how it feels to have your life wrecked.

we all know how the man gets shafted in any divorce no matter how it was caused to
 
arknor said:
whats wrong with a bit of good old fashioned revenge? would make them think twice about doing the same thing again and they would know how it feels to have your life wrecked.

we all know how the man gets shafted in any divorce no matter how it was caused to
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Revenge, you sound very bitter about something, wife done the dirty on you?

KaHn
 
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