Theatening to lock the door on me.

j.col · 1 Sep 2011 at 22:51

to OP, is there any way to keep her sweet until you leave for uni?
a box of chocolates or even 20 fags might sweeten her up.

@dmpoole,
well said

rhysduck · 1 Sep 2011 at 22:53

LordSplodge said:
mouth-breather .

I genuinely lol'd. Nice one

Robbo · 1 Sep 2011 at 22:53

So let me get this straight.

A young couple have joined a PC hardware forum in order to complain about the guys mother?

Am I right?

Ahleckz · 1 Sep 2011 at 23:07

I got kicked out of my home when I was younger. Afterwards I got off my arse, stopped moaning like a pathetic child and got on with it and sought the help that I needed. I wasn't able to come online and mention cryptic things on a forum and wait hours and/or days for a response.
If you have been kicked out, properly, man up and go and sort your life out before you **** it all up the wall and become another statistic (and believe me, I've seen plenty of them).

JCSlacker · 2 Sep 2011 at 08:54

My best mate is in a similar position, his mom wants to get it in his head that he needs her and should therefore pay for her alcohol habits. He's now enrolled in the army.

Neodite · 2 Sep 2011 at 09:04

Wait, so your mum does not like your girlfreind.

She does noe like your nan (her mum? if it's your dads mum then understandable if they are no longer together)

What ever happened to kids being there for their own mothers? Your g/f said she "ain't right in the head"

If that's the case don't you think you should stop being a horrible child and you know, help her out?

Your GF should not be putting down your mum on an internet forum either (Or bf, i dunno)

grrr

Shayper · 2 Sep 2011 at 09:15

I've been kicked out of my house a few times.

Why?

Because my ex-stepdad lied about me doing **** so that he could go bang the next door neighbour. GD, I am disappointed in the level of vitriol towards this guy. Not everything can be solved. This is clearly one of those issues.

Vonhelmet · 2 Sep 2011 at 09:23

Brookert said:
So parents aren't accountable for the actions of their children?

Beyond a point, no.

Gilly · 2 Sep 2011 at 09:32

Telescopi said:
That's what I came in here for

over 100 posts though, very disappointed

We got there in the end

Neodite said:
Wait, so you're mum don't like you're girlfreind.

She don't like you're nan (her mum? if it's you're dads mum then understanable if they are no longer togeather)

What ever happened to kids being there for there own mothers? You g/f said she "ain't right in the head"

If that's the case don't you think you should stop being a horrible child and you know, help her out?

You're GF should not be putting down you're mum on an internet forum either (Or bf, i dunno)

grrr

Brain dripping out of my ears

EdwardTeach · 2 Sep 2011 at 09:35

Some not very nice replies. A lot of people seem to be assuming OP is the problem. His mum could be psychotic or an alcoholic for all we know. Not filling in his uni grant application does make her sound like a very selfish woman.

OP- It sounds like your grandparents like you, could you move in with them? Do they live near by? What about one of your mates?

[TW]Sponge · 2 Sep 2011 at 09:43

eddie_slovik said:
The only bites I'm interested in begin, "bleep, bleep, wheeeeeeeeeeeee" but you would have to be an angler to understand.
My daughter though is a complete arse.

You sound like an amazing parent :rolleyes:

Neodite · 2 Sep 2011 at 09:46

EdwardTeach said:
Some not very nice replies. A lot of people seem to be assuming OP is the problem. His mum could be psychotic or an alcoholic for all we know. Not filling in his uni grant application does make her sound like a very selfish woman.

OP- It sounds like your grandparents like you, could you move in with them? Do they live near by? What about one of your mates?

So if his mum is having a hard time or there IS something wrong with her. This is the best way to go about it?

I bet if it was the other way around his mum would help him get help.

pepp77 · 2 Sep 2011 at 09:51

EdwardTeach said:
Some not very nice replies. A lot of people seem to be assuming OP is the problem. His mum could be psychotic or an alcoholic for all we know. Not filling in his uni grant application does make her sound like a very selfish woman.

OP- It sounds like your grandparents like you, could you move in with them? Do they live near by? What about one of your mates?

The not very nice replies all started because the OP in the OP said he wanted to kick the front door in to his mothers house before considering talking!

Gilly · 2 Sep 2011 at 09:52

pepp77 said:
The not very nice replies all started because the OP in the OP said he wanted to kick the front door in to his mothers house before considering talking!

Or, to put it another way, force entry into his own home to get his own belongings having been locked out by the one person that should be ever-reliable throughout his life?

Neodite · 2 Sep 2011 at 09:55

Gilly said:
Or, to put it another way, force entry into his own home to get his own belongings having been locked out by the one person that should be ever-reliable throughout his life?

OR, to put it another way, force entry into his mothers house and forgetting about her, who sounds like she needs help. Instead of being reliable for her like she should be for him?

Davepen · 2 Sep 2011 at 09:55

bertboy13 said:
Yes this is for real. I have tried all sorts of things and the family have tried to help but nothing seems to work. She still threatens to lock me out of my own home.

What you have to understand, is that you are technically an adult now.

You have no right to live there, it is not your home, it is her home.

You need to work things out with her, my relationship with my mum used to be pretty bad when I was younger and living under her roof, but it's much much better now.

It's probably due to the things you don't really think about when you're your age.

Things like bills, and helping around the house etc.

If you kick the door down, now only will it be a d*** move, but you will also be liable to be arrested.

ZXSpectrum · 2 Sep 2011 at 10:02

Just get out of there and its job done you have the right to your own property and i am sure if you called the police and told them the situation they would accompany you to the house have a word with your mum and let you get your stuff.

I also find it strange that a long time friend can come on here and back him up but cant give him a bit of space to dump his stuff and to kip on the floor for a couple of weeks... Surely that the least a friend could do. Even if its not his house (Living with parents etc) his parents would have the decency to take him in for a couple of weeks if his mum is pretty much a head case.. ???

fullmetaltony · 2 Sep 2011 at 10:03

Wow, I find it incredible that anyone comes onto GD with these problems.......
Far more useful to spend that time trawling google for answers, they aren't here.

Gilly · 2 Sep 2011 at 10:09

Neodite said:
OR, to put it another way, force entry into his mothers house and forgetting about her, who sounds like she needs help. Instead of being reliable for her like she should be for him?

I understood your stance from your first post, I was simply saying there's two sides to every story.

It isn't as black and white as some are making it out.

Vonhelmet · 2 Sep 2011 at 10:13

Davepen said:
You have no right to live there, it is not your home, it is her home.

It's not quite as black and white as that, though, is it?