Is this a question leading to some tirade about me being some objectionable, heartless nihilist?![]()
No, not at all, it is more to do with how different most people's perception changes after having kids. I was very anti-police and outspoken on 'freedom of speech' and various other topics that might mean I would be described as 'left-wing' or 'tree-hugging' up until my late twenties. Then I had kids and faced the reality of the world when you have to protect, raise and nurture your kids - not only keeping them healthy but also teaching them the difference between right and wrong.
My opinions are very different now in so many ways, and had either of my daughter's died (for whatever reason) and someone had done something comparable I may well have been shouting for an even longer custodial sentence, that is, if I didn't just go round and beat the living **** out of him instead.
Point being that many people feel that when it comes to children, sentences should be more stringent than if the equivalent crime was committed against an adult or involved adults. Society as a whole (and I think I can make this generalisation) considers crime involving children to be far more serious than crime involving adults, and I think this is right and proper, they are the most vulnerable section of society. And if someone says something nasty or unpleasant about someone's dead child, I think the majority of parents would not think that a custodial sentence is too harsh.
Of course you could argue that that's because parents are over emotive about this, but ask yourself this... how do we determine sentencing? Ultimately, it comes down to the public perception of the seriousness of the crime, and you can guarantee that if there is repeated public outcry about 'too short' or 'too long' prison sentences for some types of crimes, the sentences will ultimately be altered. So, if the majority of parents believe that this type of 'crime' warrants a custodial sentence then that is a fair punishment, because that is what people believe is a just punishment for the crime.
So, before saying that a custodial sentence is unfair in this case maybe it's worth canvassing say 1000 parents and seeing how many thought it was too harsh or too lenient... If more than half think it's too harsh then I stand corrected, but I imagine it would be the other way around...