Pathological Liars

asim18 · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:36

Do you know anyone like this?

I do, and I feel extremely sorry for him, but many others see him as some sort of knob. He lies for absolutely everything, and it's so obvious.

For example... Today I had a day off work, so I phoned him at 11AM to ask if he wants to hang out. I said, "have you got uni today?". He replied "Yeah I start at 4". I said "Cool, shall I come pick you up?". He replied "Erm.... erm.... uhm I'm getting ready for uni." Getting ready 5 hours before? Okay.

Another example... The other day I phoned him to hang out. First he said, "Can't right now I'm at uni" then 20 seconds later he said "Yeah I'm out shopping with my family right now, we'll link up tomorrow".

Should I confront him or just ignore it? I'm like his best friend and I'd hate to see this affect his relationship with other people, because it's so obvious.

Biohazard · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:37

He ain't interested in you bud.

Ricochet J · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:38

He's making up excuses to not be with you.

shoes · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:38

Biohazard said:
He ain't interested in you bud.

lol beat me to it

^TANK^ · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:38

asim18 · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:39

LOL... Walked right into it.

Seriously though, we hang out most days, so if he's tired or something he should just let me know honestly? Those are just examples, there's much more to it.

Cosimo · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:40

You had a friend. Maybe he's trying to tell you that you smell.

Rroff · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:42

Neither are examples of pathological lying - 2nd one tenuously might be. First one sounds like he was brushing you off and couldn't come up with a better excuse.

For whatever reason hes not interested in you, move on.

Azza · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:42

Did you promise him a mac10 and your failed to deliver in a timely fashion?

Ahleckz · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:45

Nothing wrong with preparing for Uni 5 hours before, he should be preparing long before that really.

^TANK^ · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:46

Azza said:
Did you promise him a mac10 and your failed to deliver in a timely fashion?

Is that your way of calling asim a hypocrite?

Deleted member 77746 · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:48

Tell him he is lying, confront him.

RomanNose · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:51

Tell him that you keep having dreams that he is a pathological liar.

Robbo · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:51

He doesn't like you. Find a new friend.

ElliorR · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:52

He wants to bum you and is embarrassed.

agnes · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:54

Find a new friend or stop being so clingy.

I see my best mates once a month, if that! I don't need to see them every day.

You are smothering the poor lad.

Kenai · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:55

asim18 said:
I'm like his best friend

No you're not.

He doesn't like you very much, he doesn't want to hang out but he's worried that saying so will upset you too much and he'll get Mac10'd in three minutes.

B@Th*nG · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:56

you hang out with this retard?

B@

asim18 · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:58

You're all jealous.

Robbo · 24 Oct 2011 at 17:58

Perhaps he's a decent person and is disgusted by your illegal drug abuse.

Or perhaps he's concerned that, while high, you'll cap him with one of your many Mac-10's.