Hi guys, I just wanted to share with you one of the craziest nights of my life so far.
My ex is a compulsive gambler who goes through roughly 2000 pounds a week, we were planning on going to Thailand on Monday and we had 3000 pounds, she asked me to meet her in town at 11 am on Saturday, she kept me waiting for 3 hours while she blew away all the money on the bet shop playing roulette machine, she then had the cheek to call me to ask to borrow £200 (by the way she has done this 100x times before) I called her out on it and basically begging her to stop and why is she doing this, she gets really angry with me, starts lashing out, then when I take the money she be sweet then snatches from my hands and tells me to **** off and says everything is over. (she's also done this in the past many times but we usually made up).
Anyway, after she loses the last £200 she goes away with her friend and I go home, literally 10 minutes after I get home she starts calling me and texting me (she always does this, tells me to **** off her life,never wants to see me again, tells me to stop texting her, blah blah, then calls me 5 minutes after I'm gone). Some of the texts I don't reply but she doesn't stop, at 7:42 she sends me a message saying literally "open the ******* door* I need to get my stuff ( she had some of her dresses here, creams, you know, nothing valuable and that she had any need of) so I replied to her, I will give you your stuff, she replies again *just open the ******** door now*, she always talks to me like a piece of **** anyway, so I ignore her, she tries to call me I don't answer, she calls me again and I pick up because she's banging the door and ringing the door bell, so I go downstairs to open the door but with no intention of letting her in, she storms her away in pushing me aside and starts trashing the place, taking what's hers with it, she also starts trying to hit me, punch me, slap me, kick me, grab me, etc (she has hit me before, actually, she has hit me 3 times just in the last 2 or 3 weeks), I never hit her back because I make a point of never hitting women, I never hit a woman in my life and never intend to, also I know I can get done for that, she starts smashing our picture frames, cutting her pictures of us, she goes to my passport and rips it apart, etc etc, any way, I finally have enough, I hold her with my arms, standing back because she's a skilled fighter (thai boxing) and I know she's going to head butt me or do something, so she kicks me in the stomach, I step back and she starts going on a rampage again, finally I have enough and say I'm going to call the police if she doesn't calm down, so she yells at me to do it, she came in roughly at 7:49 and I dialed 999 at 7:56, so all this in minutes really, she's an alcoholic and very dangerous and I wasn't taking chances. When I'm talking to 999, she snatches my phone from my ears, pushes me back, throws my phone on the floor and starts stomping on it, I even told her, what the heck are you doing, the police are hearing everything but she didn't care. She takes my phone and won't give it back, eventually when the police arrive, she puts my phone in her pocket not to give it away but I asked one of the officers to get it from here, she tries to steal some of my stuff in the end, the police officers did a horrible job of taking statements but luckily I just been re-doing the statement with a really good police officer all morning. She has been detained since yesterday and is now doing her statement I believe. Just crazy really... I decided to go out and pulled a russian blonde with huge knockers and slept on them the whole night until 9 am when I had to go meet the police officer at my house. So all in all, what a crazy night. I got my rebound and I hope to never see this woman again but I'm quite frightened to be honest because she already has a record for violence, criminal damage, she's glasses people, bottled, knifed and she's quite dangerous, I really hope this is the end of it but sadly I doubt it...
She's done this many times in the past before and she emotional abuses me as well by putting me down so much, she acts like a child, you can't say anything to her or calling her out on it without her going psycho crazy on you, she's also extremely jealous and can't see any woman looking at me or even hear my phone text ,she's so crazy she thought I wouldn't open the door to her because I had my ex there...my ex lives in Vancouver, unless she owns a private jet it would be impossible to get here in 5 hours. Just shows her mentality, anyway I really have enough and the last police officer I saw couldn't be more sympathetic compared to the first 2 which completely ignored her trying to steal my property, damaging my phone, passport, photo frames etc. I hope justice is done but sadly I don't think much will happen from it
I've done so much for this girl, more then I ever done for any woman, I loved and still do so much, I've taken care of her kids like my own while she spends the whole day gambling and drinking, I've given her so much, I even quit my last job for her because she thought my boss fancied me, basically ,I've been a hopeless idiot in love and still never enough for her or appreciate anything. She even alienated me from my family because she doesn't like them.
Anyway... that's my Jeremy Kyle story, feel free to say lolfranco22 but I wish I was lying... I'm not. I actually feel so frightened I'm locking my door, something which I never did before. If it was a bloke I would know how to deal with it and I have no problem confronting men but I will not hit a woman for 2 reasons, 1 I think it's wrong and 2 I can get done for that so easy unfortunately it doesn't work the other way around, I'm sure if it was me hitting her I would be being prosecuted already.
I know I don't deserve any sympathy from people from here and I don't want to excuse myself but I've been in this relationship for 8 months and I feel that's why I have been such a jerk to the people around me and even in these forums, because I take so much abuse from her and need to have so much patience I have to find somewhere to vent... well no more, I hope I will feel better soon after all this is done with.
I love you all, I really do, I know I'm not very nice but these forums really keep me going sometimes. Thank you
Sorry for the long post and take care.
My ex is a compulsive gambler who goes through roughly 2000 pounds a week, we were planning on going to Thailand on Monday and we had 3000 pounds, she asked me to meet her in town at 11 am on Saturday, she kept me waiting for 3 hours while she blew away all the money on the bet shop playing roulette machine, she then had the cheek to call me to ask to borrow £200 (by the way she has done this 100x times before) I called her out on it and basically begging her to stop and why is she doing this, she gets really angry with me, starts lashing out, then when I take the money she be sweet then snatches from my hands and tells me to **** off and says everything is over. (she's also done this in the past many times but we usually made up).
Anyway, after she loses the last £200 she goes away with her friend and I go home, literally 10 minutes after I get home she starts calling me and texting me (she always does this, tells me to **** off her life,never wants to see me again, tells me to stop texting her, blah blah, then calls me 5 minutes after I'm gone). Some of the texts I don't reply but she doesn't stop, at 7:42 she sends me a message saying literally "open the ******* door* I need to get my stuff ( she had some of her dresses here, creams, you know, nothing valuable and that she had any need of) so I replied to her, I will give you your stuff, she replies again *just open the ******** door now*, she always talks to me like a piece of **** anyway, so I ignore her, she tries to call me I don't answer, she calls me again and I pick up because she's banging the door and ringing the door bell, so I go downstairs to open the door but with no intention of letting her in, she storms her away in pushing me aside and starts trashing the place, taking what's hers with it, she also starts trying to hit me, punch me, slap me, kick me, grab me, etc (she has hit me before, actually, she has hit me 3 times just in the last 2 or 3 weeks), I never hit her back because I make a point of never hitting women, I never hit a woman in my life and never intend to, also I know I can get done for that, she starts smashing our picture frames, cutting her pictures of us, she goes to my passport and rips it apart, etc etc, any way, I finally have enough, I hold her with my arms, standing back because she's a skilled fighter (thai boxing) and I know she's going to head butt me or do something, so she kicks me in the stomach, I step back and she starts going on a rampage again, finally I have enough and say I'm going to call the police if she doesn't calm down, so she yells at me to do it, she came in roughly at 7:49 and I dialed 999 at 7:56, so all this in minutes really, she's an alcoholic and very dangerous and I wasn't taking chances. When I'm talking to 999, she snatches my phone from my ears, pushes me back, throws my phone on the floor and starts stomping on it, I even told her, what the heck are you doing, the police are hearing everything but she didn't care. She takes my phone and won't give it back, eventually when the police arrive, she puts my phone in her pocket not to give it away but I asked one of the officers to get it from here, she tries to steal some of my stuff in the end, the police officers did a horrible job of taking statements but luckily I just been re-doing the statement with a really good police officer all morning. She has been detained since yesterday and is now doing her statement I believe. Just crazy really... I decided to go out and pulled a russian blonde with huge knockers and slept on them the whole night until 9 am when I had to go meet the police officer at my house. So all in all, what a crazy night. I got my rebound and I hope to never see this woman again but I'm quite frightened to be honest because she already has a record for violence, criminal damage, she's glasses people, bottled, knifed and she's quite dangerous, I really hope this is the end of it but sadly I doubt it...
She's done this many times in the past before and she emotional abuses me as well by putting me down so much, she acts like a child, you can't say anything to her or calling her out on it without her going psycho crazy on you, she's also extremely jealous and can't see any woman looking at me or even hear my phone text ,she's so crazy she thought I wouldn't open the door to her because I had my ex there...my ex lives in Vancouver, unless she owns a private jet it would be impossible to get here in 5 hours. Just shows her mentality, anyway I really have enough and the last police officer I saw couldn't be more sympathetic compared to the first 2 which completely ignored her trying to steal my property, damaging my phone, passport, photo frames etc. I hope justice is done but sadly I don't think much will happen from it
I've done so much for this girl, more then I ever done for any woman, I loved and still do so much, I've taken care of her kids like my own while she spends the whole day gambling and drinking, I've given her so much, I even quit my last job for her because she thought my boss fancied me, basically ,I've been a hopeless idiot in love and still never enough for her or appreciate anything. She even alienated me from my family because she doesn't like them.
Anyway... that's my Jeremy Kyle story, feel free to say lolfranco22 but I wish I was lying... I'm not. I actually feel so frightened I'm locking my door, something which I never did before. If it was a bloke I would know how to deal with it and I have no problem confronting men but I will not hit a woman for 2 reasons, 1 I think it's wrong and 2 I can get done for that so easy unfortunately it doesn't work the other way around, I'm sure if it was me hitting her I would be being prosecuted already.
I know I don't deserve any sympathy from people from here and I don't want to excuse myself but I've been in this relationship for 8 months and I feel that's why I have been such a jerk to the people around me and even in these forums, because I take so much abuse from her and need to have so much patience I have to find somewhere to vent... well no more, I hope I will feel better soon after all this is done with.
I love you all, I really do, I know I'm not very nice but these forums really keep me going sometimes. Thank you
Sorry for the long post and take care.
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