I Think the Misses is about.....?

Oh good grief, what the hell are you posting pictures of her on the internet for? If she found your browsing history and saw that you had posted them that'll only make the situation worse...delete them and ask the mods to remove all the quoted images.

I think you should both go and see someone either professional to talk to, i.e. Relate, or a family member or friend who will be completely non-biased and make you both listen to the other person's point of view.

It's far too easy to get sucked into arguments, with three small kids you must both be constantly knackered and that will only make it worse.

You both need to sort this for the sake of the kids, stop being stupid - both of you, stop rowing with her - if she starts it bite your tongue and calm it down.

Finally get some outside help for the sake of your kids, god knows what it must be like for them if you two are at each others throats all the time or not talking, it's no environment for them and it's your duty as parents to put them first.

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TheBigCheese said:
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Oh good grief, what the hell are you posting pictures of her on the internet for? If she found your browsing history and saw that you had posted them that'll only make the situation worse...delete them and ask the mods to remove all the quoted images.

I think you should both go and see someone either professional to talk to, i.e. Relate, or a family member or friend who will be completely non-biased and make you both listen to the other person's point of view.

It's far too easy to get sucked into arguments, with three small kids you must both be constantly knackered and that will only make it worse.

You both need to sort this for the sake of the kids, stop being stupid - both of you, stop rowing with her - if she starts it bite your tongue and calm it down.

Finally get some outside help for the sake of your kids, god knows what it must be like for them if you two are at each others throats all the time or not talking, it's no environment for them and it's your duty as parents to put them first.

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How can you end a rant if you've not declared it at the beginning? :confused:

I've made the edit in bold, for future reference. :)
 
Nobody asks for pics? Check.
OP having relationship problems? Check.
OP's wife possible going through Post-natal depression or other serious issue. Check.

I know I'll post pictures of her in, oh say just an England top, that will help the situation.

I call Troll. Surely nobody would just randomly post pictures like that! :D
 
AberystwythLAD said:
How can you end a rant if you've not declared it at the beginning? :confused:

I've made the edit in bold, for future reference. :)
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It didn't start out as a rant...and I'm the worlds worst programmer. :p


LordSplodge said:
Nobody asks for pics? Check.
OP having relationship problems? Check.
OP's wife possible going through Post-natal depression or other serious issue. Check.

I know I'll post pictures of her in, oh say just an England top, that will help the situation.

I call Troll. Surely nobody would just randomly post pictures like that! :D
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That would actually be a happier situation than what's been described...I would be pleased if it was a troll in this situation!
 
simulatorman said:
Sit down and talk to her.
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Efour2 said:
Talk to her or feed her to a snake... Pick one?
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Maily said:
Talk to her and sort it out!! Not to late to stop it and save your relationship!! Good luck!!
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Common theme here, OP. Talk to her. :rolleyes:

If you feel the relationship is worth saving, make the effort. You've had some arguments? Be the bigger man, make amends - buy her some flowers and a box of chocolates.
 
Talk to her and if she won't talk, Afraid your probably right and she is going to leave you and most likely has someone else in the waiting. Lifes cruel but then again theres plenty more fish in the sea to sample ;)
 
One things for sure, if she sees this thread after the inevitable Photoshop ****storm you'll be sleeping alone. Seriously you should remove the pics.
 
It really boils down to one, err, two simple things. Do you love her? And, does she love you? You'll know the first answer, and if it is no, then you need to get out of your marriage asap, doing as little damage to your kids as you can in the process. If you're there just for them I think you'll be really sad one day, looking back. If it's yes, all you need to do is talk to her about how she is feeling, and if that means giving ground somehow then do it. If she no longer loves you then you need to be divorced. That's hard as a coffin nail, as you likely lose your kids aswell, but it has to be faced. Whatever the answers are to these questions, as many people have pointed out here, you need to talk to her. One way or the other. I don't like the fact that she's secretive, or that she recently had contact with her ex. It doesn't bode well. But for you and your kids if not for her, you need to get it sorted.
 
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