Ever feel like you've got too much stuff?

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This has become a real concern for me as of late as I constantly feel cluttered and by consequence dysfunctional. I feel under constant duress from the things I own; I no longer feel as if I own them but they own me. I have no doubt that much of this is brought on from not having much personal space since moving back home, but the odd thing is, compared to many, what I own is relatively average. I believe it highlights a much larger point in that I was genuinely happier when I owned less.

Now, I'm not exactly a materialistic person, but having a disposable income I have fallen victim to buying things ready for purpose: a smart suit that perhaps gets worn once a year, or a wintercoat that may be worn even less if the weather stays mild, for example. There is no doubt that these things are needed and have their place, but the reality is I'd rather not be burdoned with them at all. Of course there's no such thing as a disposable suit, so I'm forced to continue to own such items. In an ideal world I'd probably have a few t-shirts, jeans, etc. that I'd wear to death but with the pressures of adulthood to look fashionable on a night out or have the correct gear for hobbies, these things very quickly add up and that's just talking adequate clothing! Throw technology, books, DVDs and assorted sentimental junk into the equation and the mind begins to boggle. Similarly, when one doesn't own such things, you quickly find yourself needing them. It's catch 22!

Indeed, this Christmas just passed, the desire to declutter my life has got so strong that I asked family to refrain from buying me gifts. Of course they ignored such a request and I'm now left with generic tat I never wanted but now find myself obligated to find a home for.

I often wonder how much of the stuff I'd really need if it came down to it and the answer is not much at all and that's the ideal I'd like to really be living with, but it seems with potential needs come musts and I'm forced to have the cake and not eat it. Indeed, sometimes I find it quite difficult to throw something away as there is a practical aspect to it; take my rock climbing gear for example. I have every intention to go again one day but the last time I went was in early 2008!

So, a rather long-winded thread here, but the question is: do you ever feel like you've got too much stuff?
 
Currently no, careful with money, buy what i need or really desire.
Dont buy stuff for the sake of it, all tends to have a purpose.
Main expenses, food and baby clothes.
 
I used To have a triple size wardrobe full of clothes but being a biker dude
at the time it wasn't practical to wear a lot of it so to the Charity shop it went
even now i just want what i need
a more minimalist lifestlye is a weight off my mind not to have too much to worry about.




Choose Life. Choose a job. Choose a career. Choose a family. Choose a:eek: big television, choose washing machines, cars, compact disc players and electrical tin openers. Choose good health, low cholesterol, and dental insurance. Choose fixed interest mortgage repayments. Choose a starter home. Choose your friends. Choose leisurewear and matching luggage. Choose a three-piece suit on hire purchase in a range of :eek: fabrics. Choose DIY and wondering who the :eek:you are on Sunday morning. Choose sitting on that couch watching mind-numbing, spirit-crushing game shows, stuffing :eek: junk food into your mouth. Choose rotting away at the end of it all, :eek: your last in a miserable home, nothing more than an embarrassment to the selfish,:eek: up brats you spawned to replace yourselves. Choose your future. Choose life... But why would I want to do a thing like that? I chose not to choose life. I chose somethin' else. And the reasons? There are no reasons. Who needs reasons when you've got GD to ask spek me :p
 
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Nope! Emigrating to a different country has a certain slimming effect on your personal possessions :p
 
Not really, don't spend a fortune on clothes at all. Odd garmnet every now and then.

Spend most of my money on drink, wish I didn't and spent most of it on material things sometimes.

Going to change what I spend most of my cash on when i get back to the UK.
 
I think at the moment I do probably have more than I want or need although if necessary (e.g. emigration) I could quite easily leave most of it behind and not worry about it.

I do intend to have a bit of a clear out relatively soon and try to get rid of a whole load of PC stuff and a few other bits and bobs that I'm never likely to use again. Last time I was back at my parents I got rid of lots and that felt worthwhile but less in the sense of liberating for me than because I felt I wasn't just leaving stuff there in an "out of sight, out of mind" sense.
 
The only personal posessions that bother me in that way are my dvd collection and old games/consoles. I just hope they will be worth something someday, but i guess that day will only come after i have kicked the bucket. Thats not the reason why im keeping all my old games and consoles, I guess i just want to be able to justify keeping them.
 
I'm about to sell pretty much everything I own. (Apart from my 2 pioneer plasma's as they can't be replaced) To fund buying our forever house. Its a barn conversion and needs a LOT of money spent on it.

We totalled up our "Toys" last night and its a staggering amount. We didnt total how much we spent we totalled up how much we could get for them on the bay.
 
No, we have everything we want but I wouldn’t call it being surrounded by possessions. We’ve never been into “I fancy that buying” for the sake of it. I suppose it comes from being brought up to appreciate what you have and our heads have never been turned by buying power.
 
I did use to have too much stuff but just after Christmas we decided to have massive clearout and re-configure what little storage we have. When you live in a 2 bedroom flat you really shouldn't be keeping boxes for every electrical item you ever buy in the off-chance you'll need to take it back to the shop :p
 
Nope. What I have is what I want or need. I hate clutter. I used to have too much stuff when I was younger but when you have money and little outgoings I suppose that is inevitable. :)

Now the only thing I probably have too much of is bicycles and books but they're two of my favourite hobbies so I allow myself that indulgence. The bicycles can be hidden away and the books make an attractive display so it's not all bad!
 
No, but I don't hoard anything. I'm very much "I've not used this in 2 months, I don't need it" kind of guy. from 18-22 I just bought anything and everything and yeah I probably did have too much stuff, but as soon as I got engaged and decided to save for a house that stopped. Now purchases are considered carefully and so I only have things I really want or use.
 
I always find my self selling the things I don't need or use, only to end up buying newer of the same stuff later on.

I think I have buying/selling syndrome or something :p
 
I worked off shore for a long time and that taught me all i needed i could carry in 2 bags.

Even now i don't have much "stuff" more than 2 bags worth, but, if i ever had to leave in a hurry I know what are essentials.
 
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