Would you leave your wife if she got fat?

I would if it got to the point where it threatened her health and she refused to do anything about it. I'm not prepared to watch someone slowly die in front of me when something can be done about it.

As for just putting on a bit of weight, no not at all, wouldn't bother me.
 
Dimple said:
Everybody is unique - you may be fat because of fast food but crap never goes into my mouth and I exercise a lot (a lot of crap may come out of it).
This last month I've even gone without my 1 bottle of Newcastle Brown once a week - desperate times.
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You can't be serious? That's like 150 calories... 20 calories a day. You really think that's going to make a difference?
 
Would like to see a percentage of how many men have posted in this thread saying Yes even if their overweight themselves.
 
I think it's less about whether they get fat and more about whether they are doing something about it. If they let themselves go and generally don't care because "I'm in a relationship now so I don't need to be attractive" then yeah, run for the hills.

If it's just a few too many takeaways and something that's fixable given a bit of effort and a few less pies then fine.
 
Wife/getting older probably not.

Currently being young with girlfriend, probably. I'd expect them to do the same if I paid no respect to my body.
 
One of my close friends can eat a McDonalds breakfast and a KFC for lunch and not put any weight on, he's stick thin and doesn't do any exercise. Whereas, I try and eat as healthy as possible, have the odd chinese and I'm 17 stone lol.

He must be one of the few that has a crazy high metabolism
 
Sat down to a nice meal my wife had prepared last night and glanced over to her plate and realized she had issued herself a larger portion than me!

She's not fat (yet) btw
 
I wouldn't just leave her like that. If she got fat I'd tell her that she is getting fat and/or is fat. If she decides to lose to weight I'd help her all the way and motivate her. If she doesn't want to lose the weight I'd say "oi bitch instead of eating the sandwich you made me in the kitchen just give it to me ffs!"
 
kwerk said:
I think the word your people use is "bear". And I know you're totally gaybones for my "bear" physique. You probably have print outs up on the walls of your dads garage or wherever your weider set is.
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Bear? Dude really? You're about as bear-like as 6 year old American eating twinkies.
 
Jay794 said:
One of my close friends can eat a McDonalds breakfast and a KFC for lunch and not put any weight on, he's stick thin and doesn't do any exercise. Whereas, I try and eat as healthy as possible, have the odd chinese and I'm 17 stone lol.

He must be one of the few that has a crazy high metabolism
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I'm exactly the same as you, I exercise regularly and eat fairly well bar the odd McDonalds or two or three but my mate can eat whatever and remains stick thin. I'd rather have a bit weight than be stick thin anyway, well that's what girls have told me.
 
cyber69 said:
Sat down to a nice meal my wife had prepared last night and glanced over to her plate and realized she had issued herself a larger portion than me!

She's not fat (yet) btw
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Slippery slope there my friend.


There are some really strange views in this thread and I can't quite figure them out. Its not shallow if you don't love someone if they become unattractive to you. You fall in love because you are attracted to someone physically and to their personality. If either changes too much for the worse, why would you stay with them.

There are very very very few people that have a genuine problem with their weight that is not mainly their own fault. I'm sorry dimple but if what you are saying is true then you are not working very hard at the gym. I know that you are convincing yourself that it can't be anything you are doing because you run a half marathon but that doesn't really mean a lot. 13 miles is not a huge distance and like with most sports, you can walk or sprint so to speak.

I eat lots of rubbish but I have always played a lot of sport and still do which help to maintain my health. I know plenty of people that play sport and go to the gym that are overweight and some of them are quite fit and healthy but the majority are no-where near the fitness levels the amount of exercise they do should bring.
 
fez said:
Slippery slope there my friend.


There are some really strange views in this thread and I can't quite figure them out. Its not shallow if you don't love someone if they become unattractive to you. You fall in love because you are attracted to someone physically and to their personality. If either changes too much for the worse, why would you stay with them.

There are very very very few people that have a genuine problem with their weight that is not mainly their own fault. I'm sorry dimple but if what you are saying is true then you are not working very hard at the gym. I know that you are convincing yourself that it can't be anything you are doing because you run a half marathon but that doesn't really mean a lot. 13 miles is not a huge distance and like with most sports, you can walk or sprint so to speak.

I eat lots of rubbish but I have always played a lot of sport and still do which help to maintain my health. I know plenty of people that play sport and go to the gym that are overweight and some of them are quite fit and healthy but the majority are no-where near the fitness levels the amount of exercise they do should bring.
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