Promiscuous girls/women

Got 2 questions for you.
1) You seem to imply sleeping around is a bad thing, Why?
2) You dumped the girl who told you she had 1 previous partner only to find out there were 15, did you dump her because she lied or because of the number of partners, if it's the latter why does your opinion of person lessens the more partners they had in the past?

Edit: In case one of the questions was answered with "no self respect", then first there is no need to hate them or look down on them, if somebody got no self respect they ought to be helped if anything. Secondly why would it mean no self respect, people do all sorts of things they want to, do I have no self respect by playing golf all the time? And how is sex different from any other human activity?
 
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Hikari Kisugi said:
It is when the other person is waiting until marriage before they have sex, it is pretty damn fundamental.
It isnt in every relationship, but it clearly is for this man.

I dont understand people attacking someone as he wants to wait until he s married, and is hoping for someone whomisnt overly promiscious to be his one.
Yet he is being ravaged and slaughtered in this thread.

Its his own bloody opinion and business, not yours.
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Lol. He created a thread. If he kept his opinion to himself, then everyone else would do the same.

ElliorR said:
Do you have an address for these girls?
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:D

In my experience, there are many girls which sleep around and many guys who also sleep around. They tend to mix together (clubs etc). In addition, there are small numbers of girls who don't, and a MUCH LARGER number of guys who don't. Mainly, I'm speaking about the "geek" stereotype, which I and most of my friends would fit into. Not surprisingly, several of us including me are still virgins, due to nothing else except a lack of social skill. I think the reason that guys tend to be more resentful is because of

a) our sex drive is higher, at least it is between the ages of 10-30. This of course is the reason that women can pick and choose.
b) there are more of us who are virgins, or, at the very least, more of us who are bothered that they are virgins.
c) general sexism, subconcious or concious, that women should conform to the fair maiden/virgin ideal
 
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billysielu said:
I'm pretty much repulsed by the general consensus that casual sex is okay.

I'm not the slightest bit religious, but I'd say it's immoral.

Your body makes a promise whether you do or not, it's supposed to bring you together to protect your offspring. Your body doesn't know about contraception, so you're playing tricks with your mind, and your partner's mind - and everyone thereafter knows you have an implied bond with someone else already, whether you shrug it off or not.
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Quite the opposite my virgin friend. A mans base programming is to spread his seed far and wide*


*Not just the underside of his computer desk
 
One of my mates erm, gets around a lot, I know this and she knows that I'm much more reserved about this and not like that at all, but we're still really good friends. (no I'm not getting any :p )

It doesn't matter as long as they don't do it when in a relationship.
 
We are animals and our whole purpose is to have sex. You choosing to refrain because some bloke said it was a good idea a couple of thousand years ago is your choice. Why your belief should command respect over nature baffles me.
 
SheepBeast said:
Lol. He created a thread. If he kept his opinion to himself, then everyone else would do the same.



:D

In my experience, there are many girls which sleep around and many guys who also sleep around. They tend to mix together (clubs etc). In addition, there are small numbers of girls who don't, and a MUCH LARGER number of guys who don't. Mainly, I'm speaking about the "geek" stereotype, which I and most of my friends would fit into. Not surprisingly, several of us including me are still virgins, due to nothing else except a lack of social skill. I think the reason that guys tend to be more resentful is because of

a) our sex drive is higher, at least it is between the ages of 10-30. This of course is the reason that women can pick and choose.
b) there are more of us who are virgins, or, at the very least, more of us who are bothered that they are virgins.
c) general sexism, subconcious or concious, that women should conform to the fair maiden/virgin ideal
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I didn't create this thread.
 
Pate said:
Haha, I'm sure my potential future partner and me can make up and find the 1001 different ways.

And yes, I'm Catholic. :)



Thanks for seeing the issue.
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I take my hat off to you sir, for well stating your principles when you knew you were probably going to hate on.

On your 'debate'. I think people are judging him too much. I do think that if say, a girl, he really really likes, and she is perfect for him both character and looks wise, but she had 1 sexual partner, then i do think maybe he (Pate) would keep her.

It all boils down to how much and with who. If she was in a pretty serious relationship, I probably won't take it against her if she had a go at it with him. Even more than once. But its because they were in love, and they wanted to share not only kisses with each other, but also intimate moments.
What he wouldn't like, is a girl treating her ****** as some sort of way of entertainment. Getting it on with 20, 25, 30 different people is just not right. And there is a difference between the girl who had sex with the same guy 30 times, and a girl who had sex with 30 people once.

From what I understood, that is what he would prefer (even me tbh). And I do understand his point, as I was raised in a catholic country, among a generation of very strict grandmothers (all religious and stuff).

Once again, I take my hat off to Pate, as he knew he would probably get flamed for his views, but wasn't shy to show them.

We are animals and our whole purpose is to have sex. You choosing to refrain because some bloke said it was a good idea a couple of thousand years ago is your choice. Why your belief should command respect over nature baffles me.
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Our purpose is to have sex, but the purpose of sex is not that you have fun, but to have kids. THAT is why sex exists. And he decides to regulate his sex life because 'some bloke thought it was a good idea' to refrain because he believes in heaven, hell, sins, 10 commandments, God and the devil, and when you have faith (in this case, Christian faith), you follow the rules so in the end you get eternal happiness (Christianity tells you that, and don't dispute it. Don't turn the thread in a religious chat. That is what Christianity tells you, thats what I am quoting.)
 
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Ahleckz said:
Why not?
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Would you share a condom?

Same situation (kinda, sort of).

Ok, maybe a tad exaggerated, but you get the point. Just probably the thought that she 30 ****s went in the same ****** that you are gonna go in to might not go down so right.

Will you eat from a fork that was used by 30 people? Will you use a fork that was used by 1 person? Probably your answer would still be no, but you would prefer 1 person than 30.

Apart from that (personally) I would be more worried about stuff like STIs.

I tried to give you a small comparison. I know its not really the same but hey, maybe my point does come across a bit better (I'm expecting you to start telling my why you can't compare a fork to sex, but come on, it was a small comparison).

Also, it depends on the age too. if she went with 30 guys in a year its one thing. If she went with 30 guys in 30 years it would be a bit different.
 
I regularly eat from cutlery that many people have used in my works canteen. Between uses, it is cleaned and the people there aren't carrying infectious diseases around. Just incase anyone has a disease, the cutlery is always washed.

As long as the sex has been safe, and she is disease free then there is no problem whatsoever. Your analogies are poor and hilarious at the same time.
 
The__Malteser said:
Would you share a condom?

Same situation (kinda, sort of).

Ok, maybe a tad exaggerated, but you get the point. Just probably the thought that she 30 ****s went in the same ****** that you are gonna go in to might not go down so right.

Will you eat from a fork that was used by 30 people? Will you use a fork that was used by 1 person? Probably your answer would still be no, but you would prefer 1 person than 30.

Apart from that (personally) I would be more worried about stuff like STIs.

I tried to give you a small comparison. I know its not really the same but hey, maybe my point does come across a bit better (I'm expecting you to start telling my why you can't compare a fork to sex, but come on, it was a small comparison).

Also, it depends on the age too. if she went with 30 guys in a year its one thing. If she went with 30 guys in 30 years it would be a bit different.
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ok to follow your trend of examples, you ever been kissed by your mother?

Well guess where those lips have been.


Enjoy.
 
The__Malteser said:
Would you share a condom?

Same situation (kinda, sort of).

Ok, maybe a tad exaggerated, but you get the point. Just probably the thought that she 30 ****s went in the same ****** that you are gonna go in to might not go down so right.

Will you eat from a fork that was used by 30 people? Will you use a fork that was used by 1 person? Probably your answer would still be no, but you would prefer 1 person than 30.

Apart from that (personally) I would be more worried about stuff like STIs.

I tried to give you a small comparison. I know its not really the same but hey, maybe my point does come across a bit better (I'm expecting you to start telling my why you can't compare a fork to sex, but come on, it was a small comparison).

Also, it depends on the age too. if she went with 30 guys in a year its one thing. If she went with 30 guys in 30 years it would be a bit different.
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Going by fork metaphor, I have forks in my flat, that has been used by many many different people and yet I use said forks...obviously I clean them before re-using.

If you want to go by condom metaphor, condoms are 1 use only product, there are not designed to be re-used. Humans, on the other hand, I not single use "product" are they.

So is it the fact the "she" is getting worn out that is putting you off such women?

It feels to me like you're trying to find a way to justify your view but so far it doesn't have any real logic behind it.

Edit: I would go further and say why it bothers you outright but it's a family friendly forum, think about it and realize it yourself. You're meant to stay with somebody for their personality not because you want a tight you know what.
 
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on the fork thing, guessing you've never eaten at a restaurant, those things have been in hundreds of peoples mouths.
 
Ahleckz said:
I regularly eat from cutlery that many people have used in my works canteen. Between uses, it is cleaned and the people there aren't carrying infectious diseases around. Just incase anyone has a disease, the cutlery is always washed.

As long as the sex has been safe, and she is disease free then there is no problem whatsoever. Your analogies are poor and hilarious at the same time.
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Form people you know, and cleaned. Key words right there. How do you know they used a condom?

Look, you can either TRY and get where he is coming from, or you can just be ignorant and totally reject what he thinks. You make it seem like he is some sort of weirdo when in real life, MANY people have the same sort of ideas. I've seen a few of your posts. You seem to always go against the trend of things, or keep on having petty arguments with people. I'm all for good arguments, but you seem to find some excitement in arguing with people and trying to prove them wrong.

A prime example is the marriage thread. You kept and kept on arguing until Casiel's wife put you in your place.

Tefal said:
ok to follow your trend of examples, you ever been kissed by your mother?

Well guess where those lips have been.


Enjoy.
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Her lips never went inside me. (that sounds so bad) so like nothing can actually be shared. Apart from that, she is part of my family and not a total stranger.

Don't get me wrong, I do understand both points. I do feel that the best one is the middle road. Don't be too strict, as you can potentially block out some very good people, but on the other hand, you wouldn't want some sort of **** who even if you end up getting married, she will just leave you a few years down the line just get some different **** from some other man.

EDIT: I've seen a few posts have been written until I wrote my own. Once again, you don't have to try and show me your side of the argument, I fully get it. Its just I tried to show people the other side of the argument. And in restaurants, forks are (supposed) to be cleaned thourally (sp) well. You will probably complain if you were given glass with some lip marks on it.

Ok, maybe my metaphors weren't the best, but you know what I mean. (I'm expecting an answer on the lines of 'well, you know a shower exists and a girl cleans her ******'. NO **** SHERLOCK. Still doesn't remove the fact that she would be loose as...)
 
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