How often do you txt a girl you have only just meet?
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I find you have to add "thinking of you xxx" or else sometimes they don't get the complex meaning behind the message.
Lol don't do this, screams desperate.
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I guess if she likes me she would contact me right?
Just be nice. Comment on how she looked amazing last night even if she didn't etc etc. Was really nice to meet you etc etc. Maybe we can go out sometime? Short simple and to the point.
ONE KISS. x Any more and you are deemed too forward and will fail.
ONE KISS. x Any more and you are deemed too forward and will fail.
Don't leave it too long or she may think you're not interested. However don't go in all stalkerish with loads of texts. Start a conversation off and see how it runs. If it looks like it will go a little quiet them suggest meeting up. Definitely put a little kiss on the end if you like her. We love guys who show a little affection.
What does my head in is when you get a bunch of texts or an email from someone you quite like, have been out and about with and who seems interested and flirty, then you reply and they take several days to respond. I've had this recently and after about the 4th age of waiting have just thought, "meh, I'm not playing that game" and have just given up. No way am I chasing. 
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Got this at the moment:
Bird, known her for a while but not properly, seen her out and at a few events where we're the only people we know (Overlapping friend circles).
She gave me her number, text her saying sorry for being do drunk the night before, had a small convo, about 5 texts each, I sent the last text.
She text me randomly last night just say "How you doing?" (Which was unexpected, was going to leave it until tomorrow and ask if she's out this weekend), had a few texts again but again, sent the last text and got no reply.
Lolz women!
Not too bothered either way, would be great to get to know her properly, but i'm not going to get too bothered!
Bird, known her for a while but not properly, seen her out and at a few events where we're the only people we know (Overlapping friend circles).
She gave me her number, text her saying sorry for being do drunk the night before, had a small convo, about 5 texts each, I sent the last text.
She text me randomly last night just say "How you doing?" (Which was unexpected, was going to leave it until tomorrow and ask if she's out this weekend), had a few texts again but again, sent the last text and got no reply.
Lolz women!
Not too bothered either way, would be great to get to know her properly, but i'm not going to get too bothered!
Not too bothered either way, would be great to get to know her properly, but i'm not going to get too bothered!
Aye this is the right attitude. I just think "yeah, would be nice but I don't care either way". Stops headaches and confusion.
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Because texting and facebook have become the norm for forming and developing relationships these days.
I know, it's terrible isn't it?
Got this at the moment:
Bird, known her for a while but not properly, seen her out and at a few events where we're the only people we know (Overlapping friend circles).
She gave me her number, text her saying sorry for being do drunk the night before, had a small convo, about 5 texts each, I sent the last text.
She text me randomly last night just say "How you doing?" (Which was unexpected, was going to leave it until tomorrow and ask if she's out this weekend), had a few texts again but again, sent the last text and got no reply.
Lolz women!
Not too bothered either way, would be great to get to know her properly, but i'm not going to get too bothered!
Or call her and ask if she wants to go for some drinks.
I appreciate one mustn't try to hard, but you guys are kidding yourselves when you suggest not texting. Confidence is attractive. If you want the girl, call her, have some banter and give her a bar and time to meet. She won't make the first move.