Am i right to be a little troubled? 29yr old dude 18yr old girl

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Speaking to a collegue of mine on FB earlier, we both work at schools in IT and hes mentioned that an 18yr old leaver student has given him her number and that they've shared convos before but nothing in 'that' way and he had no clue until last Friday.

Hes said that yes, he will actually go out with her if it comes to that.. I'm 29as well, 30 this yr.. is it me getting on a bit that i find this a little odd? :confused: I've had the odd 6th former having a crush but quickly put the stops on it as i just see it as plain wrong..
 
Two concenting adults behind closed doors I dont really care what sex or how old they are to be honest.
 
Remember: it's only a problem if she is your own daughter. If not, then smash it with the force of Mount Doom after Frodo destroyed the ring!
 
Don't understand why people like OP feel the need to stick their nose in what other people choose to do when it comes to relationships tbh. You offended by it? Tough. You envious? Tough. Get a life?
 
I dont know one single guy 30 and above that doesn't want to have sexy time with an 18 year old hot chick. Christ, why would you want a 30 year old!

This is of course based purely on a physical level. If I was 30, I'd want someone a similar age as they would be more on my wavelength. At 18 your still a child mentally IMO. With the exception of a few.
 
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its not that wrong, id probably do it but could never go out with a 42 yr old and im 30..

would rather it be the other way round.
 
I use to work in IT in a school and sixth form so can relate. My school would have found it a bit weird if I was dating an ex student, but it's not against the law and providing nothing had gone on when the girl was a student I doubt the employer would've have a massive issue with it.

Tere is a 6 and half year age gap between me and my partner (she's older) and it works really well, I'm mo mature than my age so enjoy it.

Seems fine to me, although could easily be a bit of an issue if the guy starts being unprofessional about it at work, the teachers he works with would have known this girl from the age of 11 so to see a 30 year old telling tales of how he's smashing her might raise eye brows and get him to dodgy looks.
 
i was 32 and my now wife was 19 when we first started a relationship. At least i'll have a younger wife to push my wheelchair around when im back in nappies. :eek::D
 
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