Would you look at her FB, Twitter, email etc. if a chance presented itself?

I'd join my girlfriend in the shower, but no i wouldn't check her Facebook.
 
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jakspyder said:
Step one: Frape

Step two: change lots of silly settings like reversing mouse controls, screen etc.

Step three: Offensive website on show

Step four: Hide
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the old classic:
change keyboard to swedish/norwegian and lock. all the keys are in the wrong places ;)

i did that to some at my old company who had messed with my email. he had to reformat his laptop after that as he couldnt get in! the sweet smell of victory! :)

or the other classic:
screengrab of desktop, set as wallpaper
hide all icons and task bar
watch them furiously clicking icons that are just a wallpaper.
smell victory
 
This has happened to me in the past. I didn't read the messages, but I did post "I've decided to come out of the closet. Any ladies up for a bit of bi-fun" or something like that.

I still get reminded of it...
 
I've done it, and found out my ex was cheating. 15 mins later she was out on her arse in the rain (my flat, she was living rent free at the time). The reason I checked though was that within a week she changed her phone unlock from a swipe to a code (as if I wouldn't spot that, she could have just changed the swipe), and was suddenly going out for drinks with a girl from work I'd never heard of amongst other things that didn't add up. Anyway She left fb logged in once, I looked, sure enough she was cheating with a guy from work, so I booted her out on the street.

I find it a struggle not to check up on my current girlfriend now, but so far have resisted. (8 months and counting). She knows I find it hard not to, but she never hides her phone or logs out of fb when she leaves the room, so even though the temptation is there, she's not trying to hide anything so I don't see any reason to check.


Oh, but more importantly:

Step 1: Meatspin on full screen
Step 2: Disable the trackpad using the function key she doesn't know about.
 
Nope.

It wouldn't even cross my mind to do.

I certainly don't let her look at mine (I think she asked... once in the distant past and I told her she could either trust me or not).

Also in the past she had a very weird controlling ex who hacked her email and skype (I **** ye not. He hates my guts and sent me a load of rude messaages).
 
I begrudge looking at my own facebook and email accounts, married so as far as I'm concerned unless her behaviour changes dramatically I have nothing to worry about. I trust my wife 100% anyway, I know if she cheated she'd tell me but she wouldn't.

That's not denial, just trust. I can't say I've felt the same about any of my previous partners though. Heck I'm even friends with one of her ex boyfriends.

I'm lucky though, we've got a very strong relationship and I can't say how glad I am that I didn't marry one of my previous girlfriends or I probably would be checking FB!
 
Wouldn't be an issue for me. I know my wife's email, FB and all her other accounts' passwords, and she knows all of mine. I read her texts if she gets any, and she reads mine. Neither of us has anything to hide.
 
I've done it as well. I suspected/had an idea that my now ex had a thing for someone else as she gradually was loosing interest in me and was constantly tapping away on her mobile or on the phone to this particular person.

This went on for about month before one night she gave me her laptop to sort a problem out on it, and she still had Firefox running with her Facebook logged in - and there and then temptation got the better of me and I decided to divulge and have a look at her messages. My suspicions there and then were confirmed and I confronted her and she went angry and upset at me because "I invaded her privacy" and this went on for about 2 hours before I foolishly gave in & believed that she wasn't cheating and kidded myself at the time that the messages I found were not what I instinctively suspected and evidently put it all at the back of my mind/tried to forget it ever happened.

Though things were still not great since and one night out of the blue she decided to break up with me, stating she wanted to just remain single. Low and behold 2 days after we break up, she put herself "in a relationship" with this particular person on Facebook lol.

I felt an idiot at the time for checking her Facebook but with the amount of suspicion that had built up over time up to this event, it was hard to not suspect anything. At the end of the day though it goes to show that my instincts were right all along.

I have since been seeing someone else and not once did I ever suspect that she was speaking/had interest in someone else, and therefore I've never had another temptation to secretly read her Facebook messages.

Liam
 
I wouldn't do it - yes for reasons of trust and respect, but mainly because we did long distance for 5 years and she could have been doing whatever with whoever whenever - as far as I knew and vice versa.

With the ever-present potential for getting the wrong end of the stick, it bemuses me totally why some people actively seek to destroy the happiness they have by doing this.

For instance, if she were to go through my machine, she'd come to believe I was actively engaged in casual sexual relationships with several men in and around Brighton.

Which may or may not be true.
 
Nope :) I get that some people might out of curiousitys sake but I dont think my gf is hiding anything and the damage that would be caused if you were ever caught doing something like that is massive I would think
 
If you go snooping, you will more than likely find something that sets in the doubt, even if it means nothing in reality.

Done it before, would not do it again.
 
Done it before, no regrets about doing it because it was to confirm something I had strong suspicions of anyway, and was vindicated by what I found.

Now with a new girlfriend and have never felt the need to snoop. I did catch her snooping on me in a moment of weakness though but I'd be pretty hypocritical if I took the moral high ground over it. I wouldn't be so forgiving the second time though.
 
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