Soldato
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I don't mean by accident. I mean that to write off anyone who's ever cheated as the lowest of the low is absurd. I've never cheated on anyone btw so I'm not defending myself here.
I dont think its absurd..
Once someone has cheated on you it is the END. They are instantly much lower than a turd. Trust is smashed to bits, imagine investing so much emotion in someone (love) and then you find out they've been bangin someone else? Once this happens they can never ever be trusted - and Im talking both men & women here. Never ever. I dont care how many times they say sorry, or how much they cry or that they re-take their marriage vows blah blah blah....cry me a river...
If you stay with this person you can never deny that in the back of your head will always ALWAYS be that doubt & mistrust.
Give me a situation where it's different.
By cheating, you're breaking the ultimate trust between two people. It's absolutely disgusting and I really think it's one of the worst things a person can do. People can invest their wholes lives, careers, their very beings into people, and for someone to destroy it like that is reprehensible in the extreme.
Breaking up is different, as sad and traumatic as that may be.
+1, well said!!
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