Ever so slightly angry right now!
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[FnG]magnolia;22508124 said:Posters who don't update their relationship threads should be probated
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You all got Jaff_Far'd - OP has no girlfriend.
Blimey..anyone would think you lot have nothing better to do with your lives! 
We met at a neutral location for some food and a talk. I was surprised when she got out of her car, came over and gave me a hug!
We ended up talking all night. To sum it all up, she claims that she still wants to move in with me more than anything else, but just not into the house we'd chosen. For whatever reason she doesn't like it any more!! It annoys me as I think it's a perfect house and nothing else will be ever come close, but I guess you can't make someone like a house.
She wants me to move into her 1 bed flat with for a few months while we look for somewhere else to live, keeping most of the furniture we've bought, but cancelling the order for a new sofa until we find somewhere. She'd have to bear the cost of this (£375)so I'm not left out of pocket by her sudden change of heart.
To be honest I'm not convinced at all about moving into her flat. She claims it would become "our" flat and we'd have an equal say in what goes on, but she's already lived there for 18 months so is set in her ways. I guess it would only be for a short period while we found somewhere else to live, but it's still far from ideal.
I've made it very clear to her that I'm within inches of just walking away from the whole situation as I feel massively disheartened and let down. She has agreed to go look at the house we were supposed to move into just to be 100% sure it's not what she wants, but I don't hold out any hope.
At least I know where I stand, but there is still quite a bit of thinking to do.
We met at a neutral location for some food and a talk. I was surprised when she got out of her car, came over and gave me a hug!
We ended up talking all night. To sum it all up, she claims that she still wants to move in with me more than anything else, but just not into the house we'd chosen. For whatever reason she doesn't like it any more!! It annoys me as I think it's a perfect house and nothing else will be ever come close, but I guess you can't make someone like a house.
She wants me to move into her 1 bed flat with for a few months while we look for somewhere else to live, keeping most of the furniture we've bought, but cancelling the order for a new sofa until we find somewhere. She'd have to bear the cost of this (£375)so I'm not left out of pocket by her sudden change of heart.
To be honest I'm not convinced at all about moving into her flat. She claims it would become "our" flat and we'd have an equal say in what goes on, but she's already lived there for 18 months so is set in her ways. I guess it would only be for a short period while we found somewhere else to live, but it's still far from ideal.
I've made it very clear to her that I'm within inches of just walking away from the whole situation as I feel massively disheartened and let down. She has agreed to go look at the house we were supposed to move into just to be 100% sure it's not what she wants, but I don't hold out any hope.
At least I know where I stand, but there is still quite a bit of thinking to do.
Took you this long to fap??
Blimey..anyone would think you lot have nothing better to do with your lives!
We met at a neutral location for some food and a talk. I was surprised when she got out of her car, came over and gave me a hug!
We ended up talking all night. To sum it all up, she claims that she still wants to move in with me more than anything else, but just not into the house we'd chosen. For whatever reason she doesn't like it any more!! It annoys me as I think it's a perfect house and nothing else will be ever come close, but I guess you can't make someone like a house.
She wants me to move into her 1 bed flat with for a few months while we look for somewhere else to live, keeping most of the furniture we've bought, but cancelling the order for a new sofa until we find somewhere. She'd have to bear the cost of this (£375)so I'm not left out of pocket by her sudden change of heart.
To be honest I'm not convinced at all about moving into her flat. She claims it would become "our" flat and we'd have an equal say in what goes on, but she's already lived there for 18 months so is set in her ways. I guess it would only be for a short period while we found somewhere else to live, but it's still far from ideal.
I've made it very clear to her that I'm within inches of just walking away from the whole situation as I feel massively disheartened and let down. She has agreed to go look at the house we were supposed to move into just to be 100% sure it's not what she wants, but I don't hold out any hope.
At least I know where I stand, but there is still quite a bit of thinking to do.
The whole thing feels like a trap, big massive donkey Kong sized alarm bells would be ringing inside my head. The only reason she'd be worth staying with at this point is that she a completely deprived dirty mare between the sheets, and I'm talking about stuff the porn stars would think twice doing.
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Move in with her, look for a bigger place, move to new place, win.
This.
She's still keeping her options open - if you move into a place together, it's both of yours, whereas if you move into her flat, it's her flat and she can kick you out whenever she wants.
Don't trust her*
*she's a woman, so this goes without saying really!
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Yup, she is trying out what it's like living with you and if she doesn't like it she can turf you since it's her flat.
