When you see a change of PM, whereby the incumbent has to go and ask the Queen to be relieved of their duties with the new one having to ask if he can PM (despite winning an election he still has to ask for her permission) does this not ring any bells and show you that actually the Queen still has quite a bit of power (even if it is largely ceremonial).
This post sums it all up in one.
Try to dismiss abuse of power for personal gain as ceremonial.
There is no contradiction to be had, and a lot of 'well what do you expect?'..... after decades of 'just a figurehead'...
It's not right, frankly. It is news however.