My point about the burden of proof being on the religious, and the idea of God just being a step too far into the unknown as per Carl Sagan stands completely unscathed against anything said in this thread so far, if that was t the case I'd be more than happy to change my mind.
There is no burden upon anyone to prove their belief or lack of belief to anyone else, only when you use such belief or non-belief to impose your specific ideology onto others do you inherit a burden of proof. That goes for everyone. As Sagan said, absense of evidence, is not evidence of absense.
There is a common misconception among the more vehement of non-believers that the believer has not come to ther belief rationally, in some cases this may be true, but like I have said a dozen times in this thread, it may be a truth, it is not THE truth, because many believers have very rational and evidenced based convictions for their belief...Peter Hitchens is a prime example. The problem is trying to ascribe scientific evidence as being the only kind, this fundamentally limits the value of individual perceptions and insights into how humanity interact with both the universe and within themselves in using reason and logic to determine fundamental truths that science is either unable or not designed to answer. Liberal Christianity for example is invested in determine truth value from scripture using methods firmly grounded in the naturalistic and rational values of higher criticism as I explained earlier.
The problem is when one group tries to force everyone to conform to their rationalisation, which in itself is irrational.
Attacking people for believing in such nonsense is important in advancing humans to a stage where we make evidence based policies and decisions rather than pandering to the delusional, it will take time, but I firmly believe that as Atheism takes hold, and it is firmly doing so in various parts of the world, intelligent decision making will come along with it, such as ending homophobia and the war on drugs.
I have no idea what atheism as a position has to do with the War on Drugs, however, we are in Western Society (and also eastern societies such as China in some respects) largely invested in secular law making and secular assessment of Human needs on a day to day basis. Scientific discovery and technological and sociological advancement are high priorities for such societies. Atheism isn't necessary for that, neither is theism...what is necessarily is tolerance, tolerance of the individual freedoms and rights inherent in expression and belief...these should be the cornerstones to building society, not simply replacing one form of indoctrinated ideology with another. You are right that we should be making intelligent and rational decisions to determine our societies needs and structures, we need to remove negative intolerances and prejudices from society wherever possible, but we don't do that by prejudicial and intolerant means, we do it by changing peopes attitudes through education, rationalisation, and liberalism. You have to convince them, not attack them...all that accomplishes is an internalisation of their beliefs and a move to fundamentalism. It is counter-productive to the aims and values you want to instil.
We should be opposing people and ideas only where they are holding negative positions, we should be criticising religious organisations for their opposition to Gay Marriage for example, but equally not all religious organisations oppose Gay Marriage so it would be irrational to oppose all religious organisations, if you see my point.....this is what I was saying, you criticise the actions of a person or group based on their actions and in relation to their beliefs...you do not attack them purely because they hold a different world view or belief than we do. That is counter to a rational and free society.
In my opinion Catholicism is deeply and fundamentally mistaken in the way it interprets Pauline Epistles to oppose homosexuality, Judaism is equally mistaken for the rationaliation it gives for circumcision as well, for example, I often criticise and show why I think these things, but I don't presume to determine a persons basic belief in God as being fundamentally delusional, I simply criticise based on their actions. If their belief in God informs a liberal and tolerant individual then who am I to say they are mental? As in all things, it is how a person rationalises their position that is important to me, not that they hold a position I do not hold myself.