Ladies and gentlemen, wish me luck!

Disco Boy said:
He's probably trying to think of the best way to word how he get rejected in un/spectacular fashion.
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Not far off, work was busy :(

So, we got on really well, but friend zoned, when I asked her if she wanted to go for dinner next weekend. She basically said no because she has other stuff on her mind because she only got back from over 2 years of traveling a couple of weeks ago and feels dating would be too intense right now.

However, told me that we will be friends for the time being.

So, oh well. I tried! Really got on well so I will take friendship and move on. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

My own fault for getting my hopes up eh?
 
Oh well :D as you said more plenty of fish

also time for plan B you gave her a chance to go out of her own will, Plan B Roofies time J.K

Did it really feel like she was just friend zoning you or is there no possibility in a couple months time when shes more settled and ready to commit she might be interested?
 
To be fair like she said she's just coming back to the real world from 2 years away there's no way she would have wanted to jump straight into a relationship, but there's always hope me and my mrs were friends all through school.
 
Ignore her, she'll be texting you in days, ignore her again and she'll be ringing you, ignore that as well. There is only one way out of friend zone and that's not be a friend!.
 
dunn2010 said:
Oh well :D as you said more plenty of fish

also time for plan B you gave her a chance to go out of her own will, Plan B Roofies time J.K

Did it really feel like she was just friend zoning you or is there no possibility in a couple months time when shes more settled and ready to commit she might be interested?
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We got on really well and can totally see where she is coming from, we will stay mates for now. No doubt meet for drinks in a couple of months time again and see whats what :)

I'm just glad we got on so well! Was a great night, lots of laughter.
 
agnes said:
Not far off, work was busy :(

So, we got on really well, but friend zoned, when I asked her if she wanted to go for dinner next weekend. She basically said no because she has other stuff on her mind because she only got back from over 2 years of traveling a couple of weeks ago and feels dating would be too intense right now.

However, told me that we will be friends for the time being.

So, oh well. I tried! Really got on well so I will take friendship and move on. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

My own fault for getting my hopes up eh?
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Don't give up all hope. She has a point, to be honest. Maybe once she's settled down a bit she'll be open to some wooing. Just don't get all stalky and needy or anything. Move on and don't contact her again. Nothing - not even any little FB notes saying "just seeing how things are" etc, etc. Zero contact.
 
agnes said:
We got on really well and can totally see where she is coming from, we will stay mates for now. No doubt meet for drinks in a couple of months time again and see whats what :)

I'm just glad we got on so well! Was a great night, lots of laughter.
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At least you both had a good night, she may have some cute friends!
 
I would defiantly wait couple months and see if shes in a better place to take things further. There is a small chance she may not be into you. don't want to be negative but it is a possiblity however as mentioned she probably isn't in the right palce atm to commit.

i'd defiantly meet up again later down the line if you really like her and see if shes in a better place then, what have you got to lose?
 
dunn2010 said:
I would defiantly wait couple months and see if shes in a better place to take things further. There is a small chance she may not be into you. don't want to be negative but it is a possiblity however as mentioned she probably isn't in the right palce atm to commit.

i'd defiantly meet up again later down the line if you really like her and see if shes in a better place then, what have you got to lose?
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Well said, and totally agree with everything you said. I'm just glad she spent her time seeing me considering she has a lot of catching up to do with family and friends.
 
County said:
Sigh....
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You sad for him too? That's really sweet of you to try and empathise. :)




Chris, I was going to say, bad luck, but you've got a new friend in your life, someone with whom you get on with, and who knows there may be a chance in the future, and even if not, it's always good to have a few close female friends (worked for me! :D).

It sounded positive and to be fair she's right with what she said - and you know it! :)

However, I know you're not the sort to be worried about being single too long ;)

Onwards and upwards! :)
 
dunn2010 said:
I would defiantly wait couple months and see if shes in a better place to take things further. There is a small chance she may not be into you. don't want to be negative but it is a possiblity however as mentioned she probably isn't in the right palce atm to commit.

i'd defiantly meet up again later down the line if you really like her and see if shes in a better place then, what have you got to lose?
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I don't know about defiantly meeting her... that might be a bit tricky to do. ;)
 
At your next 'drinks' she will introduce you to her new fella. Go find someone else as she will rip your heart out or drive you crazy if you're all besotted. Play it cool Trig, play it cool :)
 
either way fair play for doing what you really wanted to. If you diddnt take that move to go and see her for them 5 mins you would always be left wondering. I bet a lot of blokes would have just watched the moment pass.
 
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