Mrs just left me..

Allnamestaken said:
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From what she said to you though op she seems confused as hell but not about where she stands with you I honestly think shes testing the water with someone else by the way you worded her responses. Women do that ****.
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Some women do. So do some men. You can get crapped on the same way regardless of your sex. Or your sexual orientation - being in a homosexual relationship doesn't automatically make people better (but it does make sexist bitching after a break-up rather unlikely).

Anyone who doesn't see any sexist bitching in this thread could try reading it and swapping the sexes around as they go.
 
XiS111 said:
I believe thats whats just happened to me :|

Figured it out this weekend that she only broke up with me to see a new guy since shes gone all saturday and only back on sunday nights.

So the question now is whether I take action and confront her saying I know shes seeing someone else, or do I suppress my anger and never say a thing.
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She broke up with you, say whatever you like. However pointing out to someone that you know she's seeing someone else after she's already broken up with you, seems a bit weird. Presumably that's why she broke up with you.
 
Robbie G said:
She broke up with you, say whatever you like. However pointing out to someone that you know she's seeing someone else after she's already broken up with you, seems a bit weird. Presumably that's why she broke up with you.
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The issue I'm having with it is that during the breakup, she made it out that it was all my fault rather than telling the truth. So what shes done is put me through hell trying to change the way I do things hoping there would still be a chance to fix it. Never once did she mention there was someone else and I only figured it out by watching her actions (in not stalking ways! we still live in the same flat -_-)
 
4T5 said:
Knowing how lovely you are that really tickled me. :p
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BB x
 
BrightonBelle said:
Then tell that to her. Move on. She can't deal with her guilt and is trying to inflict it on you.

Can you chuck her out?

BB x
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Yeah planning to have a final discussion with her and then I'm prepared to cut all ties.

Unfortunately I can't chuck her out, we all signed contracts for our own rooms in this shared flat. Planning to move out as soon as my friend has picked out which flat he wants..
 
Good ok. Glad you have made plans already and are not dithering...

Cutting all ties is the best way. I hate people being treated like ****.

Some people are just not worth wasting your time or energy on so best to cut them out asap!

Good luck :)

BB x
 
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Thanks BB x, I'll be having that talk with her sometime tonight hopefully, if not tomorrow night and that'll be it.
 
There's no point even talking to her - the facts of the matter are:

1) She's blatantly getting banged by another guy behind your back.

2) She'll deny anything is going on until the cows come home even if you have proof otherwise.
 
pioneer2000 said:
There's no point even talking to her - the facts of the matter are:

1) She's blatantly getting banged by another guy behind your back.

2) She'll deny anything is going on until the cows come home even if you have proof otherwise.
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I still asked her, and yeah she denied it :D

but yeah, I'm a little happier that all ties are cut and I can move on with my life knowing what I left behind.
 
At least some people on these threads have enough respect for themselves to cut ties!
I lost a close friend because of her relationship. Her boyfriend bought his own house and she was still living at home with her parents, but she used to spend a lot of time round his house. She phoned me at 6am one morning to say he was in the shower and she decided to snoop round his phone, finding loads of texts from other women saying things like "thanks for last night it was great, when can I see you again?" etc etc. One was even from a girl my brother was seeing at the time. She also found lots of pictures on his phone that he had taken of the other women. I told her to get her stuff together and come to mine, and she refused and said she would sort it out.

Anyhoo over the next couple of months on nights out, his friends who were also my friends would tell her a lot of things that he had done with other women, and one even confessed to her that he had cheated on her multiple times on nights out. It turned out he had slept with about 16 other women behind her back so instead of leaving him....she got engaged and moved in with him.

Once I got with my boyfriend she stopped talking to me. I literally can't believe that someone would have so little self respect for themselves.

Anyway. Rant over. :mad::mad::mad:
 
I wouldn't wait long to update my Facebook relationship, as my new lady would probably be in my ear 24/7 about why I was still listed as going out with HER, was I really over her, can I really move on, etc. Epic earbending probably drove him to it.
 
Omg! Smigly just read your post?! Unfortunately there is only so much you can do for people like that - be there when they need you.

They are so set in the direction that they are heading that they are blinkered to everything else... for all she knows he could be still doing it?!

Absolutely crazy!

BB x
 
Robbie G said:
I wouldn't wait long to update my Facebook relationship, as my new lady would probably be in my ear 24/7 about why I was still listed as going out with HER, was I really over her, can I really move on, etc. Epic earbending probably drove him to it.
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True. In that case...

What a mug! :rolleyes:

BB x
 
The thing what bugs me about it is that I'm not the type of person who was in her ear constantly at her to leave him - ultimately that's her own decision. I said she was more than welcome at my house and was there for her when she found out more, but yeah, she literally couldn't see it. And I said to her if he can do that to her not once, not twice but 16 times (give a take 1 or 2), then what's to stop him doing it again?

I hadn't seen her in a while but I saw her a few weeks back when I was at work and it was really awkward. Couldn't believe how we went from practically living at each others houses, doing everything together and almost like sisters, to not even talking to each other when we are face to face just because of him.
 
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