no i dont think i'll argue my case..
but this is a great place to air my views without my friends reading.. because they wont agree with my hard-case views..
most gay people are friendly and i get on with them face to face but deep down i think they make me feel sick.. i guess i dont understand why..
I can make a hypothesis. Well, two actually but one is a boring cliche that's far too politicised.
Have you considered the possibility that you're making it too subjective? It's pretty common for people to filter everything through themselves. We perceive everything through our own minds, after all. So I think it's possible that you're viewing homosexuality, perhaps not entirely consciously, in terms of having homosex yourself. Assuming you're heterosexual, that's going to be seriously unappealing, probably disgusting to make you feel sick deep down. It wouldn't be a surprising step from that to homosexuals making you feel sick deep down.
I use cheese as an analogy. Bear with me, it does make sense
Cheese, especially cooked cheese, makes me feel sick deep down. The smell, the slimy stretchy ooziness...absolutely sickening. I will leave a room if someone brings cooked cheese into to. It's enough to make me retch and vomit. Cheese is vile...
to me. It's totally subjective. So I consider it objectively - is there anything
objectively wrong with eating cheese? Well, you could argue that dairy farming is objectively wrong on the grounds of treatment of animals. So there's a possible objective argument there, which is where the analogy falls down. But the basic point stands - consider homosexuality objectively. Where is the harm? If some other men want to have homosex or homosexual relationships, what does it matter? What
objective harm is there that's in homosexuality but not heterosexuality? I don't see any. Do you? If so, what is it?
marriage was always supposed to be between a man and woman..
Why? Honest question. Don't bring up procreation, or else you're going to have to argue for infertile heterosexual people to be forbidden to marry and for all heterosexual marriages to be annulled when either partner becomes infertile (which would mean all heterosexual marriages in which the woman survives to menopause, i.e. nearly all of them).
i guess i kind of hate that gays want to force their way on other peoples lives and the church,
Few do. Very few at the moment. In fact, I've never met a homosexual person who does, and I've met many homosexual people. Wanting to use a particular word to describe a relationship (and that's all this is - an argument over a word, one which I think is bloody stupid) is not forcing your way on other people's lives and the church.
shouldn't they just accept they're different and not expect things to change because of them.. accept you're gay and accept that a lot of people wont like you.
What, like "blacks" in apartheid times should have done? If you think there's a difference...what do you think it is?
Things should change if they're unfair.
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