How do you defeat the temptation of women - other than the wife?

Bengaboy · 20 Jul 2013 at 00:57

Basically - you have the wife / gf.

Probable woman you can impregnate.

Bearing in mind you already have the wife / gf - do you go along and insert the woman, or be a man and resist temptation and be a gentleman and think of blackjack all night?

G-MAN2004 · 20 Jul 2013 at 00:59

Threesome.

Edit: and then Blackjack

The_Abyss · 20 Jul 2013 at 01:06

Looking forward to a thread in three months time "My wife has left me and I'm in the ****"

JBod · 20 Jul 2013 at 01:27

Porn keeps marriages together.

RomanNose · 20 Jul 2013 at 01:30

Luckily I am not ambidextrous otherwise I would be two timing.

CREATIVE!11 · 20 Jul 2013 at 01:41

you don't defeat it.

It is hardwired into your neural circuits. Relationships are not natural hence why they don't just automatically work.

Biohazard · 20 Jul 2013 at 02:31

Scotch eggs

bitslice · 20 Jul 2013 at 02:38

If you love someone then you don't do things that will hurt them, personally I found this really easy? :confused:

I guess if you don't love them then your situation must suck

Feef · 20 Jul 2013 at 03:03

I resist this by having a fiancee who I love, and would never want to hurt. Had enough time bouncing around random girls because I thought they were pretty at some point. Well, they usually were, but a random night just doesn't do it for me.

Also, I don't play blackjack.

Double also, where exactly do you intend to "insert the woman"? Do they get a say in it?

Nevakonaza · 20 Jul 2013 at 03:04

As long as you truly love your Wife/GF and the bedroom activities are strong and adventure-full i don't see why anyone would need to perv over any other woman.

Zefan · 20 Jul 2013 at 03:25

Your thread history is interesting. It tells one a great deal about your personality.

[FnG]magnolia · 20 Jul 2013 at 04:58

Bengaboy said:
Basically - you have the wife / gf.

Probable woman you can impregnate.

Bearing in mind you already have the wife / gf - do you go along and insert the woman, or be a man and resist temptation and be a gentleman and think of blackjack all night?

You don't 'be a man', you be a decent bloody human being who loves and cares about his wife or girlfriend.

Are you sure an adult relationship is right for you?

Castiel · 20 Jul 2013 at 07:13

[FnG]magnolia;24636554 said:
You don't 'be a man', you be a decent bloody human being who loves and cares about his wife or girlfriend.

Are you sure an adult relationship is right for you?

This.

Lots of women other than my wife are attractive, but none of them are my wife so their offers, (if there are any) are redundant. There is more to loving someone than simply how they look.

CaptainRAVE · 20 Jul 2013 at 07:19

Castiel said:
This.

Lots of women other than my wife are attractive, but none of them are my wife so their offers, (if there are any) are redundant. There is more to loving someone than simply how they look.

This

Skidder · 20 Jul 2013 at 07:45

Obviously I have to fend off a lot of eager women but honestly have no desire to be with anyone other than my wife. Hope you don't have kids OP.

[FnG]magnolia · 20 Jul 2013 at 07:55

Dammit, there's another dream blown.

I mean ruined.

Xordium · 20 Jul 2013 at 08:08

OP - if you want to cheat then cheat. Just remember though you'll really hurt someone who you should care about. If there are kids they will grow up hating you, even your own family will disrespect you, your friends will think you are an idiot, strangers will always judge you as that, no one will really trust you and as you get older and cast a glance back over your life you won't be able to look yourself in the mirror - oh and in all likelihood you'll die quite lonely. Sounds good eh! Exercise some self control!

Efour · 20 Jul 2013 at 08:16

If you are a man that is clearly 1 or 2 steps behind most of us on the evolutionary and maturity scale the first easy rule is : "Don't" have a Wife/GF and spend your entire life quenching your animal urges to insert random women.

Its very simple and very boring after a while.

Skidder · 20 Jul 2013 at 08:16

[FnG]magnolia;24636654 said:
Dammit, there's another dream blown.

I mean ruined.

I can assure if I was going to go gay, it would be for a chimera of you, Freefaller and Theophany.

No1newts · 20 Jul 2013 at 08:21

You have a wife be faithful.

Nothing wrong with having a bit of chat and banter with another woman, its nice to know the rest of the opposite sex finds you attractive. Any more than that is a no no, if you don't like that get divorced before it ends messily and nastily.