Would you prefer.. pretty girl, low paid OR Ugly and well paid

Thankfully for me, my missus is both gorgeous inside and out and makes decent money...not as much as me but then i never saw that as an issue as everything is more or less 50/50. I spend my hard earned moolah on her and she does the same, currently trying to convince her to get me a new mega expensive watch for my bday next mth.

Of course the favour will be returned when she wants a new Gucci/Prada or Louis Vuitton bag:p

But whats hers is mine and whats mine is hers. Money should never be the sole reason why you are with someone imho.
 
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Depends on the personality. I earn more than my missus, but it wouldn't put me off a great girl if she doesn't earn much.

Alternatively it wouldn't put me 'on' to a girl if they earn tonnes either.

So I'd say pretty and poor.
 
she'd have to be ridiculously hot for me to subsidise her existence... then again I don't require someone else to subsidise me so I'd edge towards the pretty girl/low paid... ex gf probably did fall into this category as she was a dancer who did part time bar work etc.. in between auditions - still supported herself though and wasn't reliant on me for money

ideally I'd say neither - you'd want someone in the middle long term - normal looking girl, ok job etc...
 
I'm not trying to say I would go for just looks or money, I was trying to ask if others would and saying that my partner doesn't earn much, which is the bit I should have omitted

Many do I'm sure, more girls than guys!

I never ask anything for my birthday as it I don't want to stretch her finances

She earns 9 per hour but this has only just happened.. But definitely not posting pics now.. That would be suicidal here
 
Depends on the extremes we're talking here.

If pretty girl is also a superficial vacuous waste of space, then no.

If the ugly girl is truly monumentally fugly of hogbeast proportions, then again, no.

End of the day, I'd rather be single than with someone who's inherently unporkable for either their personality or aesthetics.
 
Is this mumsnet?! Imagine the uproar if they had the equivalent thread :p

I'd not care either way, my ex was earning 50% of what I earn, but it didn't bother me at all and she always paid her way out of principle, which to me is an important factor.
 
well, what's ugly

a lot of people don't like red heads, whereas I think they are HOT!! :D

same with weight, some like stick thin, some like a big fatty

However, out of the choice between fit/poor vs ugly/rich

mmmmmmm, gotta be fit :p
 
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