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love this thread 
whilst I HATE cheating, I'd stay well clear
whilst I HATE cheating, I'd stay well clear
Moral Dilemma !
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I agree with this
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Do the right thing and tell her, ignore the cretins on here who say do nothing. If someone was cheating on you wouldn't you want to know? Seems like a lot of people on these boards have zero morals, what kind of real man would let a decent girl be treated like scum and sit back and watch it. Pathetic beta male gimps.
The kind of people who refer to themselves as 'real' men and everybody who disagrees with them as 'cretins' and 'beta male gimps'?
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The kind of people who refer to themselves as 'real' men and everybody who disagrees with them as 'cretins' and 'beta male gimps'?
Real men do the right thing, end of.
Going through the subconscious code you have embedded unwittingly in your post, you're jealous of all his women, you clearly want him pounding your angus, and are very angry and upset he's with all these women.
The 'right thing' is a normative concept.
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[FnG]magnolia;25040452 said:
I haven't read all the thread but this.. Its his/their business. You said your not friends with either just acquaintances. Why would you have 3 pictures of him with other women. I'm guessing your a nightclub/bar photographer but still why take the pictures in the first place. Just turn a blind eye. Its non of your business.
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Your in
Actually let out a bit of wee!!This needs more love.
For the OP - how do you know the girl isnt cheating on him? Maybe with your lady??
Hmm?
Edit - just realised he barely knows these people.
None of your business really mate. If you dont like the guy, steer clear. But it is not for you to fix. For all you know they may have an open relationship.
For all you know it could be a sexual fetish they have where he comes home smelling of another woman and she can then 'punish' him.
Without all of the facts, I would stay out of it buddy, or you will just make a name for yourself.
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Two things - and listen very carefully.
1.) You are absolutely mad to post stuff like you have on something like Facebook. I cannot believe how silly some people are these days - and how willing they are to just post stuff up onto the Internet.
2.) You have no right to involve yourself in other peoples relationships - end of. How do you know the GF isn't doing the same to him - how do you know she isn't abusive / threatening or just a lazy ***** when they are alone ? It's their relationship and their life.
Most importantly, you will be the worst in the world when it does all blow up. You will be the instigator and will most likely not only loose both of them as aquaintences, but most of their friends and anyone else who WILL blame you for breaking them up. You obviously see everything as black and white and haven't thought about what things will be like a year or 2 from now and how people will view your actions. There are always two sides to a story and I'm sure if they do separate the real truth would come out.
And why would you even consider sending a pic of him cheating to her ???? That's like something a hormonaly obsesesed bunny-boiler female would do because she wanted to get back at another woman. Get your own relationships in order - and leave other people to theirs.
I'm just amazed you have to be told all this.
1.) You are absolutely mad to post stuff like you have on something like Facebook. I cannot believe how silly some people are these days - and how willing they are to just post stuff up onto the Internet.
2.) You have no right to involve yourself in other peoples relationships - end of. How do you know the GF isn't doing the same to him - how do you know she isn't abusive / threatening or just a lazy ***** when they are alone ? It's their relationship and their life.
Most importantly, you will be the worst in the world when it does all blow up. You will be the instigator and will most likely not only loose both of them as aquaintences, but most of their friends and anyone else who WILL blame you for breaking them up. You obviously see everything as black and white and haven't thought about what things will be like a year or 2 from now and how people will view your actions. There are always two sides to a story and I'm sure if they do separate the real truth would come out.
And why would you even consider sending a pic of him cheating to her ???? That's like something a hormonaly obsesesed bunny-boiler female would do because she wanted to get back at another woman. Get your own relationships in order - and leave other people to theirs.
I'm just amazed you have to be told all this.
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Best OcUK post this week!
Reading the op, it is obvious to me and many others that he indeed does want to try his luck at this other guys gf. If he didn't he'd quite simply say do your own thing and leave me be.. not 'AAMMGGG should I send her pics of him and other girls!!11!!11oneone - slight exaggeration but you get the picture I hope!
p.s. [FnG]magnolia has the best idea so far...
op I think you should re-read what you've posted and look at it from an outside perspective, then re read some of the posts on here!
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Slip a dossier on the doorstep of this girl, and knock.
Then run...
Then run...